心理活动

A short beginning in Sociology

I ask myself why people becoming cooler and numb ,

I wander why I cannot bear being with this atmosphere .

Is that because I lost the confident to win the bread with my talent or abilities?

Or  am I just still a small child which need so much love and care from other people as in the book of <the giant child country>?

Or  don’t I even have one place to put my emotional and open myself to a virtual(spiritual) world that I love and feel that I could be loved with endless care and happiness?

I think I do have that confident to analyse the surroundings ,but I don’t need to put so much energy and concentration on the company .

Since the working is not the most and only thing ,that I care about .

I am not saying that working is a piece of cake ,What I want to say is that always have the kind of attitude above the material world , and be like yourself ,to do things with all your passion ,and catch a cold eye on all the critiques and adjust yourself .

To Tina Tan ,

  I think we have some common ground on shoes ,haha .

   And since I always look for someone trustworthy and something worth pursuing for all my life ,I think it’s just ok for me to try a little bit sometimes ,so that I can learn and choose by making mistakes .

   It is just one stage of my life .and  I think everyone has his own standard of life ,job ,friends ,money etc ,I never felt I can be so tolerable to all of them .only because I learned something in psychology and philosophy ,which give me some ideas about the trouble that we both felt in our lives and hardships for ordinary people .

我问自己为什么人们变得更冷静和麻木,

我徘徊, 为什么我不能忍受这种气氛。

这是因为我失去了用我的天赋或能力赢得面包的信心吗？

还是我还是一个小孩, 需要别人的爱和关心, 就像<巨` 婴 `国>书里的那样。

还是我甚至没有一个地方可以把我的情感, 让自己进入一个虚拟的 (精神) 世界, 我爱和感觉到我可以被无尽的关怀和幸福所爱？

我想我确实有信心分析周围的环境, 但我不需要把那么多的精力和注意力放在公司身上。

既然工作不是我最关心的, 也是唯一的。

我不是说工作是小菜一碟, 我想说的是, 永远有那种超越物质世界的态度, 像你一样, 用你所有的激情做事, 对所有的批评都要冷冷地关注, 调整自己。

致谭子华

  我想我们在鞋子上有一些共同点, 哈哈。

  而且因为我一生都在寻找值得信赖的人和值得追求的东西, 我想有时候尝试一下就可以了, 这样我就可以通过犯错来学习和选择了。

  这只是我生命中的一个阶段, 我想每个人都有自己的生活水平、工作、朋友、金钱等, 我从来没有觉得自己能对他们都能忍受, 只是因为我在心理学和哲学上学到了一些东西, 这给了我一些关于日常困难的想法,我们都感受到了普通人的生活和艰辛。

2/4/2019