扶一把拉一把推一把

Give me a hand

give me a push

"  Hello, Irene, could I add you as a WeChat friend？"  I have been asked such a question many many times as I am a English teacher of two classes.

All of them are  my students' parents who are concerned about their children's studies.

There's no reason for me to refuse such request.

No reason for me to reject communication with the parents.

In this way, I have more and more Wechat friends.

What is tougher for me is to communicate for a long time with them  about their children's behaviors and studies.

With so many years of dealing with such kind of parents and students, I come to realize that  every choice of the student's to havs its own reason.

People make choices for the benefits of    himself and for the convenience of himself.  So it happens a matter of course for people to be responsible for their own choices.

I can't agree more with the following sentence：

The greatest test of courage on earth is to bear defeat without losing hearts.
勇气的最大考验是承受失败却不失去信心。

So guys,  I'm willing to help you if you need,  I'm ready to give your hand and give you a push.