坚守不移｜第三十五周周结
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1.从学校放下小孩，我和二哥直奔电影院。为了《碟中谍6》，我特意在周末温习了《碟中谍5》。
其实我有要求小孩陪我看，但被她拒绝了，理由是她看不懂，最重要是对主演汤姆·克鲁斯无感。
我和二哥对汤姆·克鲁斯有感啊，我们从1986年的《壮志凌云》追到现在，整整三十二年，我们追白了头发。
无悔青春起始的喜爱，说说我知道的汤姆·克鲁斯（Tom Cruise）吧。
1962年7月3日汤姆·克鲁斯出生于美国纽约州，
1981年，19岁的汤姆·克鲁斯进入演艺圈。
1986年，汤姆·克鲁斯出演《壮志凌云》，影片中有一首我们耳熟能详的经典主题曲——Take My Breath Away 。
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《壮志凌云》里穿着军装的汤哥俘虏了多少颗少年的心没有人知道，但落日余晖下阿汤哥骑摩托车的侧影，是我心中永恒的经典。
1988年，达斯汀·霍夫曼和汤姆·克鲁斯合作了《雨人》，并在次年获得了第61届奥斯卡金像奖最佳影片、最佳男主角等多项大奖。
1996年，汤姆·克鲁斯出任《碟中谍》系列影片男主角。
弹指一打岁月。
《碟中谍》来到《碟中谍6》，现在的阿汤哥乍一看变了样子，然而，一骑上摩托车……
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容颜易改，坚守难移。
2个多小时的观影中，恐高的二哥说了几次老婆我不敢看。为《碟中谍6》，现年五十五岁的阿汤哥就是拼了命了。
据说为了呈现空军级别的高危特技动作—高跳低开跳伞特技，阿汤哥冒着缺氧、瞬间失压甚至失去意识的危险，从训练到拍摄足足跳了106次，平均每天要跳10-15次。个中危险可想而知。
有网友说“碟中谍系列”电影，每一部口碑都高于前作，赞同。
难怪豆瓣给了9.1分，我给9.9分。为步步登高的精彩，为青春的情结，更为阿汤哥清流的坚守—要做就做到能力范围内的最好，不论到了什么年纪。
2.我想这也是昨晚《开学第一课》要传递给孩子们的。
我和小孩在腾讯视频里看了几个段落，单就观看的段落内容而言，我不吐槽。
人们看到的就是人们愿意看到的。
关于梦想，关于奋斗，关于坚守不放弃……我看到的这些，我认为值得用一辈子的时间去和未来的孩子反复重复。《开学第一课》熬的鸡汤是孩子们成长必需的营养品，这一点，没毛病。
从清华大学校长薛其坤，到用镜头记录义务教育发展的摄影师，从考学失败中走进北大的俞敏洪到我国自主研发的C919总设计师吴光辉院士。
吴院士说：所有的梦想都需要出发，需要行动，都要经历一个叫做"探索"的过程，都由所谓的顺利与挫折、顺境与逆境、成功与失败组成。大飞机是这样，人生其实也是这样。
中国孩子的成长是这样，美国孩子的成长也是这样。
我们不妨看看美国总统奥巴马的开学演讲，说的是不是这么回事：
The truth is, being successful is hard. You won't love every subject that you study. You won't click with every teacher that you have. Not every homework assignmentwill seem completely relevant to your life right at this minute. And you won't necessarily succeed at everything the first time you try.
That's okay. Some of the most successful people in the world are the ones who've had the most failures. J.K. Rowling's -- who wrote Harry Potter -- her first Harry Potter book was rejected 12 times before it was finally published. Michael Jordan was cut from his high school basketball team. He lost hundreds of games and missed thousands of shots during his career. But he once said, "I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And that's why I succeed."
These people succeeded because they understood that you can't let your failures define you you have to let your failures teach you. You have to let them show you what to do differently the next time. So if you get into trouble, that doesn't mean you're a troublemaker, it means you need to try harder to act right. If you get a bad grade, that doesn't mean you're stupid, it just means you need to spend more time studying.
No one's born being good at all things. You become good at things through hard work. You're not a varsityathlete the first time you play a new sport. You don't hit every note the first time you sing a song. You've got to practice. The same principle applies to your schoolwork. You might have to do a math problem a few times before you get it right. You might have to read something a few times before you understand it. You definitelyhave to do a few drafts of a paper before it's good enough to hand in.
I want to start with the responsibility you have to yourself. Every single one of you has something that you're good at. Every single one of you has something to offer. And you have a responsibility to yourself to discover what that is. That's the opportunity an education can provide.
3.简言之，奥巴马在说：没有人随随便便成功，要对自己有信心，要有愚公移山的精神，要像阿汤哥一样坚守梦想，不断突破自己。
经历痛苦也罢，快速接受就好。说到底，人生的过程就是不断的接受奇奇怪怪事情的过程。
“真奇怪，啦啦啦啦啦啦啦……”
唱一唱就让它过去，聪明的人不会浪费时间在纠结上。
快乐地生活的意义就是不管发生什么事，都站在痛苦的反方，去想尽办法，让不可能成为可能。
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4.挫折之后回归。
我拍了两张照片，写下几行字：要说/我真的很迷恋这样的景物/不如说/我真的感动于这条街上/那些关于彩色与黑白的记忆瞬间/那些让我成长的日子
我带着自己的幸与不幸/荣耀与伤口/坚守不移/一步一步/往前走
在该说再见的时候/说再见/该回首的时候/再回首
