三月照片日记
2017-04-01 本文已影响27人
希瑞爱夏天
别怕美好的一切消失,咱们先来让它存在。
———王小波































从出镜的频率能够看出,这个月的重点很明显就是心理学复习和健身,偏偏这两件都是慢慢养成才能看到成果的事,苦了我这颗满怀期待的心,中途一度急躁失落。庆幸的是,即便着急,身体和头脑却不曾停下,着急就一边急一边练,一边学。有时候,除了硬着头皮的撑下去,还真找不到更好的办法,毕竟情绪总归是会消退的。要是实在撑不下去,索性就放松一下,释放焦虑,储备能量。弦绷的太紧会断,人绷的太紧大概就崩溃了吧。
在我的虐腹100天计划和心理学思维导图复习计划进行中,偶尔有过几次为期一天没有行动,打卡图表上有几处空白,之前会把它当成是残缺,现在看来是留白,留出余地休整,同时也给自己反思的时间,是不是事项塞得太满,需要调整?还是优先级排的不够合理?这么一来,尽管行动短暂停下,人的状态依然在计划中,甚至可以说停留本身也是计划的一部分。
计划,行动,反思,是一个循环往复的过程,总在不断的开始和结束,结束又开始。输出力的阿秋曾经这样回答我问她刚开始学一门学科,如何风卷残云般的输入,她的回答简短却让我很受益:“开始的时候,慢就是快。想要风卷残云般的输入,要先把自己修炼成风一样的女子。”