Sense of ritual
Now close to graduation season ,every university school will have any kinds of ceremony ,like graduate photos and graduate ceremony are going to hot search .
Yesterday ,i have saw a new Weibo news ,it seams very normal but its a heartwarming :
Girl graduated from university in Nanchang to graduate, in the ceremony day ,hers parents make a special leave for two days ,from Qingdao to Nanchang ,for participate her’s graduate ceremony .they saw her to take the graduation certificate and escort her.
When they asked for why will come , hers father say :” This is an important moment of his daughter ,must witness together.”
There are also have some netizens complain their own parents :
“ My father even didn’t know which university I was in ,neither in which city “
“I have been working for almost one year ,my dad still ask me gonna graduate “
“Don’t mention that ,I even didn’t see my parents give me birthdays from childhood”
In fact ,this is only very small matter ,everyone can do that ,but seldom have parents will Specifically to do it ,even pay attention on it .because they think this is just a procedure ,Why do you have a big deal?
Such a small thing why can get so much attention ? A lot of people are being touching and warming by this matter ,why ?
I think that is because “Sense of ceremony”.
I still remember I had read one sentence :
The sense of ritual is to make you feel that you are living, not surviving ;
Could be you will often to hear the people who around you would saying that :”life have no meaning “
But actually ,its not the life have no meaning ,is you have no sense .
Sometime when you sit down to drink a cup of tea and reading book ,go out to see the scenery in firework March .or you can made a delicious breakfast by yourself in every early morning ,Open the curtains to speak yourself “morning ”,these are “sense of ritual”.
Life is year by year ,each of us are the same ,but why does everyone live differently?
That’s because the style of life to everyone is different, you can make a mess ,also can have your own blue sky .
Don’t complain it is trouble ,According to their own preferences, brings funny to your life ,to prepare some interesting ceremony ,sense of ritual ,Maybe we will be more looking forward to the arrival of the new day?