90天30个TED演讲 - Day 44: The 3 A's

Day 44

Neil Pasricha: The 3 A's of awesome

【TEDtalk】Neil Pasricha美妙生活的三个秘诀_腾讯视频

按照设定的pattern，今天主要关注三个维度中的第二个维度，演讲方式，我以面和体的形式记录下自己的理解。

面（段）

小插曲

在讲者演讲进行到一半的时候，他要求暂停十秒，介绍并感谢他的父母。由于他的讲述了很多他父母的故事，这一举动不但让他的父母自豪，也同时让听众对他的故事更有认同感。

- I'd like to pause my TEDTalk for about 10 seconds right now, because you don't get many opportunities in life to do something like this, and my parents are sitting in the front row. So I wanted to ask them to, if they don't mind, stand up. And I just wanted to say thank you to you guys.

关键词

我比较喜欢讲者以关键词的形式展开想表述的内容，这样结构上看起来很清晰。

- I've summarized those things, for me personally, as three As. They are Attitude, Awareness and Authenticity.

体（章）

整个演讲听下来像是在讲述一个日常版英雄之旅的故事，从一开始的风平浪静的岁月静好，到社会不景气，妻子的离开，好友的自杀，让讲者的生活状态滑到谷底，但是某个念头引发的行为让讲者从低谷慢慢回旋上升，行为触发思维转变让他有了更深的维度和新的视角。

- 英雄之旅启程（平凡世界）

I went to high school. I graduated. I moved out of the house, I got a job, I found a girl, I settled down

- 遭遇生活打击

it was about ice caps melting, wars going on around the world, earthquakes, hurricanes and an economy that was wobbling on the brink of collapse, and then eventually did collapse, and so many of us losing our homes, or our jobs, or our retirements, or our livelihoods.

My marriage wasn't going well, and we just were growing further and further apart. One day my wife came home from work and summoned the courage, through a lot of tears, to have a very honest conversation. And she said, "I don't love you anymore"

My friend Chris, Monday morning, I found out that he disappeared. Very sadly, he took his own life.

- 一念之转并付诸行动

I said to myself that I really needed a way to focus on the positive somehow..I was trying to remind myself of the simple, universal, little pleasures that we all love, but we just don't talk about enough..

- 收获成功和感悟

"The Book of Awesome" has now been number one on the bestseller list for 20 straight weeks. I've summarized those things, for me personally, as three As. They are Attitude, Awareness and Authenticity.

- 升华主题

You will never be as young as you are right now. And that's why I believe that if you live your life with a great attitude, choosing to move forward and move on whenever life deals you a blow, living with a sense of awareness of the world around you, embracing your inner three year-old and seeing the tiny joys that make life so sweet and being authentic to yourself, being you and being cool with that, letting your heart lead you and putting yourself in experiences that satisfy you, then I think you'll live a life that is rich and is satisfying, and I think you'll live a life that is truly awesome.