《戒子书》—诸葛亮
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诸葛亮写给儿子的一封信,只用了短短八十六字,但是对于为学做人有精简而且具体的忠告。一千八百多年前的智慧,在今天的科技时代,原来仍然有其参考价值。年轻时听人说:“真正的智慧,可以超越时空,历久弥新。”初时不知所以,现在觉得所言甚是。让我们一起向诸葛亮老师学习十堂课,在变局中安身立命,在逆境中找到力量:
诸葛亮诫子书
夫君子之行,静以修身,俭以养德;
非澹泊无以明志,非宁静无以致远。
夫学须静也,才须学也;
非学无以广才,非志无以成学。
怠慢则不能励精,险躁则不能冶性。
年与时驰,意与岁去,遂成枯落,多不接世。
悲守穷庐,将复何及!
第一课:宁静的力量
静以修身、非宁静无以致远、学须静也。诸葛亮忠告孩子宁静才能够修养身心,静思反省。不能够静下来,则不可以有效地计划未来,而且学习的首要条件,就是有宁静的环境。现代人大多数终日忙碌,你是否应在忙乱中静下来,反思人生方向?
第二课:节俭的力量
俭以养德。诸葛亮忠告孩子要节俭,以培养自己的德行。审慎理财,量入为出,不但可以摆脱负债的困扰,更可以过着纪律的简朴生活,不会成为物质的奴隶。在鼓励消费的文明社会,你有否想过节俭的好处呢?
第三课:计划的力量
非澹泊无以明志、非宁静无以致远。诸葛亮忠告孩子要计划人生,不要事事讲求名利,才能够了解自己的志向,要静下来,才能够细心计划将来。面对未来,你有理想吗?你有使命感吗?你有自己的价值观吗?
第四课:学习的力量
夫学须静也、才须学也。诸葛亮忠告孩子宁静的环境对学习大有帮助,当然配合专注的平静心境,就更加事半功倍。诸葛亮不是天才论的信徒,他相信才能是学习的结果。你有否全心全力的学习?你是否相信努力才有成就?
第五课:增值的力量
非学无以广才、非志无以成学。诸葛亮忠告孩子要增值先要立志,不愿意努力学习,就不能够增加自己的才干。但学习的过程中,决心和毅力非常重要,因为缺乏了意志力,就会半途而废。你有否想过,一鼓作气人多,坚持到底人少的道理?
第六课:速度的力量
怠慢则不能励精。诸葛亮忠告孩子凡事拖延就不能够快速的掌握要点。电脑时代是速度的时代,样样事情讲求效率,想不到一千八百多年前的智慧,也一样不谋而合。快人一步,不但理想达到,你有否想过,有更多时间去修正及改善?
第七课:性格的力量
险躁则不能冶性。诸葛亮忠告孩子太过急躁就不能够陶冶性情。心理学家说:思想影响行为,行为影响习惯,习惯影响性格,性格影响命运。诸葛亮明白生命中要作出种种平衡,要“励精”,也要“冶性”。你要提升自己性格的品质吗?
第八课:时间的力量
年与时驰、意与岁去。诸葛亮忠告孩子时光飞逝,意志力又会随着时间消磨,“少壮不努力,老大徒伤悲”,时间管理是个现代人的观念,细心想一想,时间不可以被管理,每天二十四小时,不多也不少,惟有管理自己,善用每分每秒。请你想一想,你有蹉跎岁月吗?
第九课:想像的力量
遂成枯落、多不接世、悲守穷庐、将复何及。诸葛亮忠告孩子时光飞逝,当自己变得和世界脱节,才悲叹蹉跎岁月,也于事无补。要懂得居安思危,才能够临危不乱。想像力比知识更有力量。你有没有从大处着想,小处着手,脚踏实地规划人生呢?
第十课:精简的力量
以上诸葛亮写给儿子的一封信,只用了短短八十六字,精简地传递了具体的讯息。我相信精简的表达源于清晰的思想,精简沟通更有效果。你懂得言之有物地精简沟通吗?
Lesson 1: The Power of Tranquility
Quiet to self-cultivation, non-quiet and far-reaching, learning to be quiet. Zhuge Liang advised the child to be quiet before he could cultivate his body and mind and reflect on his reflection. If you can't calm down, you can't plan the future effectively, and the first condition for learning is to have a quiet environment. Most modern people are busy all day long. Should you calm down in a busy day and reflect on the direction of life?
Lesson 2: The power of thrift
Learn to raise morality. Zhuge Liang advised the children to save frugality in order to cultivate their own virtues. Prudent financial management, living within the limits of income, not only can get rid of the troubles of debt, but also live a simple life of discipline, will not become a slave of material. In a civilized society that encourages consumption, have you ever thought about the benefits of thrift?
Lesson 3: The Power of Planning
Non-parking is not clear, not quiet. Zhuge Liang advises children to plan their lives. Don't talk about fame and fortune in everything, they can understand their ambitions. If they want to calm down, they can carefully plan for the future. Do you have an ideal in the face of the future? Do you have a sense of mission? Do you have your own values?
Lesson 4: The power of learning
The husband must be quiet, and he must learn. Zhuge Liang advises the child's peaceful environment to help the study. Of course, with the calm and calm mood, it will be more effective. Zhuge Liang is not a believer in genius. He believes that talent is the result of learning. Have you studied with all your heart and soul? Do you believe in hard work to achieve success?
Lesson 5: The power of value added
Non-study is not broad-minded, and there is no way to learn. Zhuge Liang advised the children to add value first, and if they are unwilling to study hard, they will not be able to increase their talents. But in the process of learning, determination and perseverance are very important. Because of the lack of willpower, it will be abandoned halfway. Have you ever thought about how many people are motivated and stick to the truth?
Lesson 6: The Power of Speed
If you are slow, you can't make a difference. Zhuge Liang advised the child that he could not quickly grasp the key points if he was delayed. The computer age is the era of speed. Everything is about efficiency. I don’t think that the wisdom of more than 1,800 years ago will coincide. One step faster, not only ideal, have you thought about it, have more time to correct and improve?
Lesson 7: The Power of Character
The danger can not be tempered. Zhuge Liang advised the child that if he was too impatient, he would not be able to cultivate his temperament. Psychologists say: thought affects behavior, behavior affects habits, habit affects personality, and personality affects fate. Zhuge Liang understands that in life, he must make all kinds of balances, and he must "encourage" and "smelt". Do you want to improve the quality of your character?
Lesson 8: The Power of Time
Years and time, meaning and age. Zhuge Liang advised the children that time flies, and the willpower will be spent with time. "Less and no work, the boss is sad." Time management is a modern concept. Think carefully, time can't be managed, 24 hours a day. There are not many and many, but manage yourself and make good use of every minute. Please think about it, do you have a few years?
Lesson 9: The Power of Imagination
If you fall into a stagnation, you will not receive the world, you will be obsessed with poverty, and you will recover. Zhuge Liang advised the child to fly away. When he became disconnected from the world, he lamented the years and did not help. It is necessary to know how to be prepared for danger in times of peace. Imagination is more powerful than knowledge. Have you ever thought about it from a big place, starting small, and planning your life in a down-to-earth manner?
Lesson 10: The power of streamlining
A letter written by Zhuge Liang to his son, using only a short eighty-six words, streamlined the concrete message. I believe that streamlined expression stems from clear thinking and streamlined communication is more effective. Do you know how to make things simple and streamlined?