12种坏父母的表现，你中枪了吗？
原文&图片/CureJoy 译文/自由卓越的DC
译者按：孩子就像家长的一面镜子，孩子的各种调皮捣蛋的问题，也许答案就在家长身上。在CureJoy网站上看到一篇非常有意思的文章，译者为之配上了中文，请您欣赏。
#1
If your child intentionally disturbs you, it is because you are not physically affectionate enough.
如果你的孩子故意打扰你，那是因为你们之间通过身体接触表达爱意太少了。
#2
If your child is lying, it means you overreacted to the mistakes in past.
如果你的孩子对你撒谎，这意味着你在过去对ta的错误反应过度了。
#3
If your child had poor self-esteem, it is because you advise them more than you encourage them.
如果你的孩子自尊心不强，那是因为你给予ta建议多于鼓励。
#4
If your child does not stand up for themselves, it is because from a young age you have disciplined them regularly in public. Parents shouldn’t do so even in front of siblings,friends or cousins.
如果你的孩子不捍卫自己，那是因为你从ta很小的时候就开始当众训导ta。即便是在兄弟姐妹、朋友、表亲面前，父母也不应该这样做。
#5
If you buy everything for your children still they take things that do not belong to them, it is because you don’t let them choose.
如果即便你为孩子买了所有的东西，ta还是去拿别人家的东西，那是因为你没有给ta自己选择的机会。
#6
If your child is a coward, it is because you help them too quickly. Don’t remove every obstacle from their path.
如果你的孩子显得懦弱，那是因为你习惯急于向ta提供帮助。不要把道路上所有的障碍都替ta清除掉。
#7
If your child is jealous, the reason might be you compared them with others consistently.
如果你的孩子有妒忌心，原因也许是你总是拿ta和别人比较。
#8
If your child gets angry quickly, the reason might beyou have not praised them enough. They only get attention misbehaving.
如果你的孩子很容易生气，原因也许是你对ta表扬得不够。ta只能通过调皮捣蛋来引起你的注意。
#9
If your child doesn’t respect others feelings, the reason might be you always order them – not giving importance to their feelings.
如果你的孩子不尊重他人的感受，原因也许是你总是命令ta，而没有关心ta的感受。
#10
If your child is secretive, the reason is you blow things very big.
如果你的孩子神神秘秘的，原因也许是你总把事情鼓弄得特别大。
#11
If the child behaves rudely, it is learnt from parents or others living with them.
如果孩子行为莽撞，那是从父母或和ta一起生活的人身上学到的。
#12
Authoritarian: Highly demanding parents with high level of responsiveness, support and warmth
独裁型：父母对孩子要求很高，同时给予很多的同情心、支持和温暖
Authoritative: Highly demanding parents with low level of responsiveness, support and warmth
权威型：父母对孩子要求很高，同时给予很少的同情心、支持和温暖
Permissive: Low level demanding parents with high responsiveness, support and warmth
纵容型：父母对孩子要求较低，同时给予较多的同情心、支持和温暖
Uninvolved：Low level demanding parents with low responsiveness, support and warmth
放任型：父母对孩子要求较低，同时给予很少的同情心、支持和温暖
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原文作者：CureJoy Editorial
原文出处：CureJoy网站
中文译文：自由卓越的DC
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