你在用谁的版本来衡量自己的人生

    每天，我们活在这个熙熙攘攘的世界，听到四面八方的声音，看到不同版本的人生故事。有过得意时刻，是因为发现有那么多人不如我们呢，有过失意时刻，是因为发现原来比我们高白富帅美又才华横溢的人多的是呢……
   于是，我们在小片刻的欢愉后，发现了世界的真相，开始为自己的明天焦虑。
   无意中，我看到了一个微博转发的消息，是英文版。其实，你看过下面的这些英文后，也会知道，这是个世界级现象。

   New York is 3 hours ahead of California but it does not mean that California is slow or that New York is fast. Both are working based on their own "Time Zone."

   Some one is still single. Someone got married and waited 10 years before having a child. There is another who had a baby within a year of marriage.

   Someone graduated at the age of 22, yet waited 5 years before securing a good job and there is another who graduated at 27 and secured employment immediately.

   Someone became CEO at 25 and died at 50 while another became a CEO at 50 and lived to 90 years.Everyone works based on their 'Time Zone.

    People can have things worked out only according to their pace.Work in your “time zone”.

    Your colleagues, friends, younger ones might seem to go ahead of you.

    May be some might seem behind you.

    Everyone is in this world running their own race on their own lane in their own time. God has a different plan for everybody.Time is the difference. Obama retires at 55, Trump resumes at 70.

    Don't envy them or mock them, it's their 'Time Zone.' You are in yours!

    Hold on, be strong, and stay true to yourself. All things shall work together for your good.

    You’re not late.You are not early, you’re very much on time. Stay blessed.

    So，别犹豫，别怀疑，别彷徨了，按照自己的节奏崛起，是可以的。
    但前提是做个说到做到的行动派。不然，下次你还是只有惊叹别人才是高白富帅美又才华横溢的人。
    既然这样，那，首先，你有自己的人生规划了吗？
    在确定人生战略方向的层面，我们既要有详细的计划，也要给偶然的机遇留下点空间，因为这种偶然，可能就是老天送给你的礼物。
   现在非常流行的畅销书《从0到1》，作者彼得·蒂尔，毕业于斯坦福大学法学院，本来想要成为最高法院的书记员，结果面试的时候被刷下去了，但正是这样，才有了后来的硅谷创投教父。他可没把非要在所学专业上有所成就当做唯一目标，书记员也不是他人生成功的唯一参照标准。发现热爱，积累优势，直到领先大部分人，你就胜出了。
   其次，为了确保我们能实现自己的目标，我们要时刻留心自己的时间、精力分配。如果你没有花心思往确定的方向走，那么你的目标就很难实现了。
    先不说宏大的人生理想，我们就说说今天的目标，定好了要完成一篇文章加配图的推送工作，或者要完成一份总结的起草工作，那就要围绕主题展开素材编辑和材料加工了，动手开始是有效的解决办法。如果坐下来还没5分钟，突然想到还要喝水、上厕所、还有朋友圈没刷完、淘宝看好的东东等着付款……那今天的计划恐怕拖着拖着就完不成了。
    长此以往，小目标一个个完成积累成了大目标的实现，反之，小目标的一个个拖延甚至化为泡影，导致了大目标也成为虚谈。
   
   最后，相信坚持的力量。
   世间万物，各有各的周期，各有各的轨道。春夏秋冬每个季节都有或艳丽、或孤傲、或不屈的花朵盛开，早或晚，美丽的程度有折扣吗？关键在于，你不停地拼命吸取大自然的养分，并且在适合你的季节，不早不晚地，傲娇地盛开了。