维铭父母正面管教1701期#20荐佼49/90&万科V-lear

1. English

Listening: peppa pig & 3b U4

Reading: oxford reading tree level 8, one of the book 'the rainbow machine' is his favorite book, he said he wanted to keep this book all the time.

Games: 3b U4 Catch, we also reviewed "the gingerbread man" together. Kevin loved this story very much, he told me the gingerbread man ran as fast as he can, and no one could catch him, but he was eaten by the sly fox at last.

Besides, Kevin likes to retell the peppa pig, and always plays the games learnt with peppa. 

2. PD实践

鉴于前段时间的不良情绪作祟，对孩子有时缺乏耐心，今天一早我就问他“你觉得妈妈爱你吗？”他说“挺爱的，但是我不听话的时候就不爱。”果然，他有这种感觉，我赶紧告诉他“即使你做错了事情，妈妈依然是爱你的。爸爸妈妈永远都爱你。”

我们自己也会犯错，作为孩子，犯错更是难免的，时刻提醒自己。犯错之后怎么办、怎么解决才是关键。先找出其背后的原因，然后建立情感联结，最后找出解决问题的方案。只有这样才能有效解决问题。大声吼叫、惩罚、甚至体罚，都不是解决问题的办法。