如何拥有一个自己说了算的人生？
Everything is worth fighting for alone.
任何事情都值得一个人去争取！
How to have a life of your own?
如何拥有一个自己说了算的人生？
Learn wisdom. In this day and age, if you want to live well, you need not only knowledge, but also wisdom.
学习智慧。在这个时代，想要活得很好，不仅需要知识， 更需要智识。
How to achieve success and happiness in life?
如何获得人生的成功和幸福？
We have to rely on wisdom. The world is too complex, there are too many uncertainties, and we need wisdom to guide us.
依靠智慧。世界过于复杂，有太多不确定性，需要智慧指点迷津。
Whether or not to have wisdom, what level of wisdom, is the gap between people.
是否拥有智慧，拥有什么层次的智慧，是人与人之间的差距。
In life, game is the third wisdom, concentration is the second wisdom, and choice is the first wisdom.
在人生中，博弈是第三智慧，定力是第二智慧，选择是第一智慧。
Compsure, change it to a more familiar word, which is called long-term doctrine.
定力，换成一个更熟悉的词，叫长期主义。
Amazon CEO Bezos wrote the following sentence in his first shareholder letter in 1997:''
亚马逊CEO贝佐斯在1997年的第一封股东信就写下这么一句话：
It's All About Long-Term。
一切都围绕长期价值展开。
This means that I will do it for more long-term interests, not short-term stock returns.
这意思是说，我会为了更加长远的利益，而不是短期的股票收益。
Determination is the wisdom of life ，The final victory is often the victory of time and the victory of long-term doctrine.
定力，是人生的智慧。最终的胜利，常常是时间的胜利，是长期主义的胜利。
The wisdom of choice is that life is a series of questions, but life is first of all a series of multiple choice questions.
选择的智慧人生是一连串问答题，但人生首先是一连串选择题。
What question do you choose to answer? College, city, job, partner. Life is often just a few key choices.
你选择去解答什么问题。大学、城市、工作、伴侣……
人生，往往就是那么几次关键的选择而已。
Unfortunately, most people do not know that they have a choice, nor do they have the courage to choose.
但遗憾的是，大多数人不知道自己有得选，也没有勇气去选。
Whether it is the front wave or the back wave, we now live in a world of peace and material abundance, and everyone already has the right to dream and the right to choose.
不管是前浪还是后浪，我们现在生活在和平时代与物质丰饶的世界，每个人都已经拥有梦寐以求的权利，选择的权利。
It's just that many people have no idea. He commutes on the subway for two hours a day, sits in the cubicle of the office for eight hours a day, from nine to six every day, or even walks out of the building after dark and leads a life of 996 and 711.
只是，许多人浑然不知。每天2个小时的地铁通勤，每天8个小时坐在办公室的格子间，每天都是朝九晚六，甚至是天黑之后走出大楼，过着996和711的生活。
Some people are lucky to find meaning in their work and are willing to spend their whole lives burning themselves.
有些人很幸运，在工作中找到意义，愿意付出一生的时间燃烧自己。
Some people, just at a fixed time every day, appear in a fixed place, do fixed things, and then repeat, repeat. What are we going to do? That's it. I don't have a choice anyway.
有些人，只是每天在固定时间，出现在固定地点，做着固定的事情，然后重复，重复，重复。
那怎么办呢。就这样吧。反正也没得选。
But there are still some people who have endured even more suffering and are unwilling to hand over their choice.
但还有一些人，他们甚至承受了更多的苦难，也不愿意交出自己的选择权。
I heard that children only make choices, and adults want them. Of course not. Adults, it is more important to choose.
听说小孩子才做选择，成年人都想要，当然不行。成年人，更要选择。
When you learn to choose, you often learn to give up. If you choose one, you have to give up one.
学会选择，常常就是学会放弃。选择一个，就要放弃一个。
Choose bravely, then enjoy the advantages and bear the disadvantages.
勇敢选择，然后享受好处，承担坏处。选择比努力重要，但放弃比选择重要。
The tragedy of life is often looking at the front and thinking about the rear, and finally there is no way to go.
人生的悲剧，往往是看着前方，又想着后方，最后无路可走。
Choice is more important than effort, but giving up is more important than choice.
选择比努力重要，但放弃比选择更重要。
Laozi said: rule by doing nothing.
老子说：无为而治。
Mencius also told us that people have something to do and something not to do.
孟子也曾告诉我们，人有所为，有所不为。
The wisdom of life is to know how to advance, retreat and trade-off, do not struggle with bad people, do not quarrel with meaningless things, do not gamble on providence, do not guess the hearts of the people.
人生的智慧在于懂得进退与取舍，别和烂人纠缠，别跟无谓的事情过不去，不赌天意，不猜人心。
Living your life well is the happiest.
好好过自己的生活，就是最幸福的。
