Shelley的ScalersTalk第七轮新概念朗读持续训练D

练习材料：

During a bullfight, a drunk suddenly wandered into the middle of the ring. The crowd began to shout, but the drunk was unaware of the danger. The bull was busy with the matador at the time, but it suddenly caught sight of the drunk who was shouting rude remarks and waving a red cap. Apparently sensitive to criticism, the bull forgot all about the matador and charged at the drunk. The crowd suddenly grew quiet. The drunk, however, seemed quite sure of himself. When the bull got close to him, he clumsily stepped aside to let it pass. The crowd broke into cheers and the drunk bowed. By this time, however, three men had come into the ring and they quickly dragged the drunk to safety. Even the bull seemed to feel sorry for him, for it looked on sympathetically until the drunk was out of the way before once more turning its attention to the matador.

任务配置：L0+L4

知识笔记：

bullfight 斗牛比赛

ring 圆形竞技场

matador 斗牛人

rude remarks 脏话

cap 帽子

break into cheers 爆发喝彩

the drunk 醉汉

练习感悟：

大概是人人都会遇到关于人际关系的烦恼。比如自己努力受到别人的冷嘲热讽，自己无心的一句话却被他人误解，我想解决这种矛盾的办法大概有以下几种：

一，宏观上认识到自己是孤独的，人人都是孤独的，没有永恒的好关系。

二，有的人做朋友很好，但是作为工作伙伴不一定会如朋友一样。单纯的朋友，没有工作接触，没有利益冲突，性格合适就可以做朋友。但是，如果是朋友，变成工作伙伴，那么大概率是会出现隔阂，因为工作是复杂的。并且随着你的不断向前，你会受到止步不前的朋友的嫉妒和不满，人不患寡而患不均，你大概率会丢失掉原来不同频的朋友，然后再遇到新的朋友。所以越来越能理解，人生就是一个人的列车，上上下下许多人，每个人只能陪你一段路程，最后，你还是只有自己。

三，明确自己的目标，做好自己的事情，从事情里找成就感和自信，对于别人的误解和话语，就让他去，既然不会对你人身造成什么威胁，那就让他说吧，不用放在心上，因为你不需要他的认可，你需要找到认可你的人，然后跟他做朋友，而不是纠结别人为什么不认可你。