Journal 6 ability and attraction

Sometimes We want to be more capable in everything .We also seem to appreciate  and tend to make friends with them because We can learn from them or they can help us with their strong ability. So does it mean that we will like a competent man more ?

I think whether sb will attractive to us more depends on other elements which We can't say out clearly . It's a mystery and it's  natural.We may appreciate a competent man but we may not be attracted by them.