Life is hard for everyone

People often admire others' good luck while complaining about their misfortune. Thinking that if they have half the fortune of someone else, they would surely be happy and successful. However, the reality is that life is hard for everyone. The more capable a person is, the greater the obstacles he encounters; the more successful a person is, the more difficult his life will be. No one is fortunate enough to have his life go smoothly, without obstacles, without pitfalls and full of blessings.

From ancient times to today, countless examples illustrate this rule.

Da Yu was so busy fighting the floods of the Yellow River that he did not have time to go home for 30 years. Considering the short life span of ancient people, he had not enjoyed a family life.

Kazuo Inamori, who died last month, was a famous Japanese entrepreneur, founder of Kyocera and KDDI, and chairman of Japan Airlines. Since childhood, he struggled with numerous major problems: poor health, poor academic performance, lousy work in a failing company and repeated business crises. Whatever difficulties life presented him, he managed to get through them. For an average person, any of the small problems Inamori faced would have been crushing.

Ma Yun, Liu Qiangdong, Yu Minhong, Elon Musk, Donald Trump and Joe Biden are no luckier than the majority of people. The challenges life holds for them are much tougher than those most people face. The only difference lies in attitude. With an accepting mentality, people will calm down, focus on the solution and try to solve every problem patiently. The more they deal with difficulties, the more skilled and capable they become.

Those vulnerable ones are not defeated by the problems in life, but by their bad attitudes, fear of failure and runaway mechanisms.
Life is hard for everyone, which is the iron rule. Let us not run away, but face and fight, with more patience, perseverance and audacity. Accept the results, good or bad, and move on to whatever has happened.

以下是机器翻译的结果

生活对每个人来说都是艰难的
人们常常羡慕别人的好运气，而抱怨自己的不幸。认为如果他们拥有别人一半的财富，他们肯定会幸福和成功。然而，现实是，生活对每个人来说都是艰难的。一个人越有能力，他遇到的障碍就越大；一个人越成功，他的生活就越困难。没有人是幸运的，他的生活一帆风顺，没有障碍，没有陷阱，充满了祝福。
从古到今，无数的例子说明了这一规律。大禹忙于抗击黄河的洪水，30年都没有时间回家。考虑到古代人的寿命很短，他没有享受过家庭生活。
上个月去世的稻盛和夫是日本著名的企业家，京瓷和KDDI的创始人，以及日本航空公司的董事长。从孩提时代起，他就与许多重大问题作斗争：健康状况不佳，学习成绩不好，在一家失败的公司里工作很糟糕，而且反复出现商业危机。无论生活给他带来什么困难，他都能顺利度过。对于一个普通人来说，稻盛和夫面临的任何一个小问题都会让人崩溃。
马云、刘强东、俞敏洪、埃隆-马斯克、唐纳德-特朗普和乔-拜登并不比大多数人更幸运。生活对他们的挑战比大多数人面临的挑战要艰难得多。唯一的区别在于态度。抱着接受的心态，人们会冷静下来，专注于解决方案，并试图耐心地解决每一个问题。他们处理的困难越多，就越熟练，越有能力。
那些脆弱的人不是被生活中的问题打败，而是被他们的不良态度、对失败的恐惧和失控的机制打败。
生活对每个人来说都是艰难的，这是一条铁律。让我们不要逃避，而是面对和战斗，要有更多的耐心、毅力和胆量。接受结果，不管是好是坏，不管发生了什么，都要继续前进。