Quora | How can you keep your pa
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Quora文选Anonymous
Answered Oct 11
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If you are a girl:
- Let it go if he forget an important date because of his work.
- Never put him in dilemma to choose between you and his mother.
- Encourage him if he wants to take some risk (job/business) to fulfill his dreams.
- Never compare him with your male friends/ex.
- Get ready as he likes.
- Don’t start counting his weak points or failure during a fight.
- Send him a text to say I love you/missing you.
- Don’t punish him with silent treatment.
- Never talk about break up when you are angry or fighting with him.
- Be supportive of his me-time.
- Don’t share problems of your relationship with your best friend.
- Never compare his gifts with money.
- Let him watch sports.
- Put your mobile on silent, when you are hanging out with him.
If you are a boy:
- Be patient when she is on her periods.
- Always tell the truth, because when you lie she always caught you and it hurts more.
- Listen her with full attention.
- No taunting about her ex.
- Never stop flirting with her.
- Cook for her.
- Feed her with your hands.
- when she feels low, just hold her in your arms and kiss her on forehead.
- Spend time with her family.
- Paint her nails.
- Let her take her life’s decision.
- Always keep your promises.
- Never take her for granted.
- Keep your male ego aside and say sorry when you are wrong.
- Call her, just to ask “have you had your lunch?”
▌VOCABULARY:
- dilemma:situation in which one has to choose between two undesirable things or courses of action 进退两难的窘境; 进退维谷的困境:be in/place sb in a dilemma 陷入[置某人於]进退两难之境;
- me-time:指的是自我享受时间,非正式表达;
- taunt:~ sb (with sth) try to provoke sb with scornful or critical remarks; jeer at sb 试图以嘲笑或批评惹恼某人; 嘲弄某人: They taunted him with cowardice/with being a coward. 他们讥笑他是胆小鬼。