Speaking effectively the quick a
First
Speak about something you have earned the right to talk about through experience or study
-Tell us what life has taught you
Speakers who talk about what life has taught them never fail to keep the attention of their listeners.
-Look for topics in your backgraoud
You can be sure you have the right topic for you if you have lived with it, made it your own through experience and reflection.
How?
By dipping into your memory and searching your background for those significent aspects of your life that made a vivid impression on you.
Second
Be sure you are excited about your subject
If someone stood up and directly opposed your point of view, would you be impelled to speak with conviction and earnestness in defense of your position? If you would, you have the right subject for you.
Third
Be eager to share your talk with your listeners
与听众有关系的演讲,才会精彩
Only when the speaker relates his talk to a living audience will the speaking situation come to life.
引导听众重视演讲内容,积极传递演讲中的兴奋情绪
He must make his listeners feel that what he has to say is important to them. He must not only be excited about his topic, but he must be eager to tranfer this excitement to his listeners.
把听众带入你的世界,感受你的感受,认同你的观点,执行你的建议
The effective speaker earnestly desires his listeners to feel what he feels, to agree with his point of view, to do what he thinks is right for them to do, and to enjoy and relive his experience with him.