人情世故4－100

吃饭时的闲聊，饭后的散步，可能比工作培训更能获得长进。因为那个时候，我们是放松的，我们更容易接受对方的观点。如何扩展交流广度和深度呢？我们可以试试在每次发言时，都用“是的，而且”援引一个令人愉悦的例子，而不是用“不，但是”给人一个泄气的回答。

The conversation during dinner or the walking after supper may be more inspiring than the train. It is because we are easier to accept others' opinion when we are at ease. But how to make the conversation more inspiring? We can use "Yes, and" then give a pleasant example. What we should avoid is "No, but" with an unpleasant answer.