About learning English (14)
About learning English (14)
Since I went to middle school, I always believe I have high IQ, because I am very good at study. But l think I am have low EQ. I didn't know why our teacher seems doesn't like me when I was in school. I have never be the monitor or some leader in the class.
And then I have worked in the bank about twenty years. I have never have closed relationship with leaders. I felt difficult to communicate with leaders.
When I came to New Zealand, I was very worried about language and culture. But in the school, teachers always said well done, Excellent, perfect to encourage me. Even if I spoke broken English, I felt confident to do presentation.
Then I worked for kiwi company, I felt no distance with all of managers and CEO, despite I am just a worker from other country.
I felt confident than before. I started believe myself. I can control my emotions. I realise the EQ can develop by experience, by environment , by culture.
I decided to establish my own business.
自从我上了中学,我一直相信我有很高的智商,因为我很擅长学习。但是我想我有低情商。我不知道为什么我们的老师在我上学的时候不喜欢我。我从未当过班长或班上的某个领导。
然后我在银行工作了大约二十年。我从来没有和领导人保持过亲密的关系。我觉得和领导沟通很困难。
当我来到新西兰的时候,我非常担心语言和文化。但在学校,老师总是说做得很好,鼓励我。即使我的英语说得很蹩,我也有信心去做演讲。
后来我在新西兰公司工作,虽然我只是一个来自其他国家的工人,但我和所有的经理和CEO都没有疏远感。
我感到比以前更自信了。我开始相信我自己。我能控制我的情绪。我意识到情商可以通过经验,通过环境和文化得到发展。
我决定建立自己的企业。