【The Hardest thing】20190324

第三次Speechcraft的演讲稿

The Hardest thing —— public speaking

思路

通过讲述自己的公众演讲切身实际故事来分享给大家一个道理：解决困难的最好方法就是勇敢的面对困难

大纲

故事贯穿全文，最后引出道理升华

需要回答的几个问题
1、对我而言，public speaking难在何处？【偏于内向，不善言谈、紧张(易于激动颤抖)、】
2、应该用一个怎么样的故事很好的体现出这些难处？【头马TT演讲】
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我是个程序员，在我们IT界，流传着这么一句话：“钱多、话少，死的早”，确实有点道理。我平时的工作基本不和人说话，只和我的电脑说话，我的2个美丽的电脑屏幕一直是我面对的对象。我原本就不太会讲话，然而话少，使我更加胆怯于在公众面前表达自己。这就是我最艰难的事情
记得第一次参加头马会议，是在2016年。我和很多实习生一样第一次参加头马，当会议进行到客人自我介绍环节时，我们的实习们依次上台自我介绍，他们都标现的很好，但是，轮到我时，我的脑子一片空白，我站在台上，很久没有说话，然而，台下大家都沉默了。还好我还记得我自己的名字，我的年龄，我的家乡，我的职业，我的学校，所以我还是说了一点：“我叫kevin，24，来及九江，单身。我是个程序员，毕业于江西农业大学，That‘s over Thank u’”. 自从这次会议之后，我就再也没有勇气参加过头马会议了。当我从Symbio离职，我以为我不会再接触到头马了，然而，事情总是比你想的更有意思。就在去年，在好朋友Mark的忽悠下，我又来参加头马了，当我再次站在头马的舞台上，历史总是惊人的相似。我还是一样，我的脑子一片空白，我不知道讲什么，我还是紧张了。当在table topic环节时，和主持人握手时，我的手时凉的，抖动的，我完全不知道该如何去表达这个主题。还好这次我坚持到了现在，虽然，我还是会紧张，不敢公众演讲，但是已经看淡了这个问题。我给我的心理暗示是，我是一个平凡的人，紧张是我一定会发生的。当我慢慢地去面对我的问题时，我会尽量的去参加头马会议，多到舞台表达自己的想法，我慢慢的变得从容了一点，淡定了一点。
解决困难的最好办法就是勇敢的面对困难，然后一次一次的去克服困难，直到把困难变成一件想吃饭那样简单的事情时，恭喜你，你已经成功的克服了困难。

I am a programmer. In our IT world, there is a saying: "More money, fewer words, early death" is really a bit reasonable. My usual work is basically not talking to people, only talking to my computer, my two beautiful computer screens have always been the object I am facing. I didn't speak very much, but fewer words made me more timid to express myself in the public. This is my hardest thing.

I remember the first time I attended the Toastmaster meeting, which was in 2016. There are many interns who attended the meeting with me. They are also the first time. When the meeting went to the guest's self-introduction section, our interns came to the stage and introduced themselves. They all showed very well, but when it was my turn, my brain was blank, I stood on the stage and did not speak for a long time. However, everyone in the audience was silent. Fortunately, I still remember my own name, my age, my hometown, my profession, my school, so I still said a little: "My name is Kevin, 24, come from Jiujiang, single. I am a programmer, graduated from Jiangxi Agricultural University, that’s over Thank u!'". Since this meeting, I have never had the courage to participate in the Toastmaster meeting. When I left from Symbio, I thought I would not be in touch with the Toastmaster again. However, things are always more interesting than you think. Just last year, my best friend, Mark, invited me to attend the Toastmaster meeting, I came back. When I stood on the stage of the Toastmaster meeting again, history always repeats itself in an amazing way. My mind went blank, I don't know what to say, I am still nervous. When I was shaking hands with the host during the table topic, my hands got cool and trembling. I can't express anything about this topic. Fortunately, this time I insisted on the present, I will still be nervous and dare not speak publicly, but I have already looked down on this issue. The psychological suggestion I gave to me was that I am an ordinary person, and tension is what I will happen. When I bravely face my issue, I will try my best to attend the Toastmaster meeting and express my thoughts on the stage. I slowly become more and calmer.

The best way to solve the problem is to face the difficulties bravely, and then to overcome difficulties once and for all, until turning the difficulties into a simple matter. congratulations, you have successfully overcome the difficulties.

The Hardest thing

Ladies and Gentleman, dear Toastmasters, Good Evening.

1、I would like to/ ask you one question / before my speech/ that what the hardest thing / is /for you?
2、For me./ I will tell you/ a true story/ about the hardest thing /in a programmer’s life. In our “IT dog”/ Engineer’s world, there is a saying/ as below:
3、"More money, fewer words, earlier death.” / which is really / a bit reasonable.
4、My daily work is /only to talk with my computer / instead of talking with people/ and my two colorful computer screens /are the only object /that I face to every day.
5、I don’t speak/ in the public occasion/ too much/ but fewer words makes me too timid to express my opinions. / It is my hardest thing.

1、I remember clearly / the first time I attended Symbio Toastmaster regular meeting in 2016.
2、There are some interns / who attended the meeting /with me. It’s also the first time / for all of them.
3、When the meeting went to / the guest's self-introduction section, the interns were invited to the stage/ to introduce themselves/one by one. Most of them performed very well /with natural expression
4、 but when it was my turn, my brain was blank suddenly /with huge nervous. I couldn’t see anything/ and only stood on the stage/ without any words/ for a long time. At the same time, everyone /in the audience /was silent /and waited for my self-introduction.
5、Fortunately, several seconds past, the basic information of mine /came to my mind /and so I could say a little slowly /with some stammer(结巴): "My name is Kevin, 24 years old and I come from Jiujiang City. Now I am a single programmer, graduated from Jiangxi Agricultural University, that’s all Thank u!'". I left the stage quickly /after my self-introduction.

1、I have never/ had the courage /to participate in the Toastmaster meeting /since that meeting.
2、When I left Symbio Company/ two years ago, I thought that/ there would not be any touch/ between Toastmaster and me again/ in further.
3、However, things are always much more interesting than I guess. Just as the saying that “life is like a box of chocolate. You never know /what you're going to get next.”
4、Just at the end of the last year 2018, one of my best friends in Symbio, Mark Cai invited me again to attend the Toastmaster meeting passionately and I have to come back to the TI Stage again.
5、When I stood on there again, history always repeats itself /in an amazing way. My mind went blank again and I didn't know what to say with nervous and afraid. When the toastmaster of the Table Topics Master shook hands with me, my hands became cool and trembling. I couldn’t talk about anything/ on that topic.
6、This time/ I insisted to stand /on the stage and Although I was still nervous and dare not to speak before an audience, I have already looked down on this issue. The psychological suggestion/from the bottom of my heart /told me that I was a normal and natural person and it was just the tension before the public audience makes it happen.

1、Dear fellow toastmasters and guests, have you encountered the same situation?
2、So, according to my personal experience, I will tell you/ that the best way to solve the problem it is to face the difficulties bravely /and try to overcome the difficulties / with scientific practice/ until the difficulties /turn into a simple matter/ for you.
3、I believe/ that you can overcome/ your hardest thing /successfully.

Thank you.
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