Day 194: 拥抱脆弱 《dare to lead》

今天开始看买了好几个月的这本《dare to lead》.

作者Brene Brown 是研究社会工作的学者，教授。她的主要研究课题和著作主要是关于探讨vulnerability ，脆弱性。而这本《dare to lead》正是讨论在职场里，真正的勇气是拥抱自己的脆弱，而不是穿上盔甲拒绝脆弱。

你的盔甲来自于你自己的羞耻心，恐惧，你怕自己的行为会被人评判，会被人讨厌，会影响职场关系，戴上面具穿上盔甲，oh well, I don’t care! 是真的不care吗？封闭自己的同时，不仅仅是拒绝承认脆弱，你也阻断了自己感受真诚，友善和正直的关系。是虚假的伪装。

Wholeheart是即使知道自己会被人讨厌，会暴露自己的短板，会承担风险，仍然选择忠于自己的内心，勇敢地去挑战现状，拥抱脆弱，发挥领导力。

It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat..      ——Theodore Roosevelt