放弃

真不敢想象一个人不顾一切地喜欢你，最终又不顾一切的放下你，需要经历多少次痛苦的挣扎，不顾一切喜欢你的时候，她失去了原本拥有的很多东西，不顾一切地放下你的时候，她失去了她自己 还有你。

I can't imagine how many painful struggles a person will have to endure to like you and put you down at last. When she loves you desperately, she loses a lot of things she had. When she puts you down desperately, she loses herself and you.