To be a better yourself

The  husband said to her wife: I  am  going out  with  my  friends .She  replied:  OK

After  a  while their  son  said:  mom  I  got  my  result for the mock exams and they  aren't  good.

The son expected to  get a  scolding from  his mother,but  to his  surprise,his  mother calmly said:OK  if  you  work  hard you will  be able to do well.and if not,you will have to repeat the smester,it is up to you.

The next day her daughter came to her and hesitating said:mom,I smashed the car,the daughter was scared that the mother would  get angry.but  to her surprise, she said:OK,take it  to the car shop  and get it  fixed.

A person who  was usually  irritated  and grumpy was now suddenly changed, seeing such reactions,everyone got worried and thought  something might be wrong.everyone came to her and asked is something wrong,why are  you acting so calm?

She  smiled and replied:it  took me a long time to realize that each person is responsible for their own life. I realize that my anguish worrying anxiety stress, it  doesn't solve  your problems but aggravates mine.I have realized that I can only give you advice if you ask,but it depends on you to follow or  not.Whatever decision you take it's consequences , good or bad you will have to live with them.I am not responsible for the actions of  anyone .I realize that I can only control myself.My job is to care for you,love you ,encourage you,but after that,it all depends on you to solve your problems and find your own happiness.

Therefore I should remain calm and let each of you solve your problems yourself.

Everyone at home was speechless.From  that day on,the family  began to function better,because  everyone  in  the house knew exactly what it was that they needed to do.