驯服

《小王子》应该是我看的第一本成年人童话小说吧。现在再看那段狐狸和小王子的对话，才真正懂得驯服的意思。驯服是人与人之间最深刻的关系。

要驯服彼此，需要责任和耐心，也意味着期待和依赖。朋友、爱人，尤其是亲人，我们不见得已经建立了驯服关系。驯服，需要舍得花费自己的时间去了解、陪伴，而且当建立了驯服关系你们在彼此的世界就是独一无二的。To you,she/he is the unique in all the world.

“What does that mean-- 'tame'"？驯服是什么意思

"It is an act too often neglected," said the fox. "It means to establish ties".“这是一种经常被忽视的行为，”狐狸说。 “这意味着建立联系”。

If you tame me, it will be as if the sun came to shine on my life.

"It is the time that you have devoted to your rose that makes your rose so important".Because it is she that I have watered; because it is she that I have put under the glass globe; because it is she that I have sheltered behind the screen; because it is for her that I have killed the caterpillars (except the two or three that we saved to become butterflies) ; because it is she that I have listened to, when she grumbled, or boasted, or even sometimes when she said nothing. Because she is my rose.

驯服关系的建立也带来了失落，尤其在离别时。当小王子要离开时，狐狸很伤心，却说这驯服带给了它好处。在没被小王子驯服之前，金黄色的麦子对他来说什么也不是，但因为小王子的头发也是金黄色，当被驯服后，狐狸爱上了风吹麦浪的声音，看到麦子就会想起小王子。所以当小王子离开并非什么都没有留下。 "It has done me good "said the fox.