Show your work读书笔记
阅读小感：这本小书，也花了不少时间呢，大概会成为我读完的第一本英文书。（如果我没记错的话，以前学生时代有读过吗？完全忘记了。）也会是兔年正经读完的一本书！因为其中的东西确实是我所感兴趣的，体量又小，想起来就赶紧读一章也不觉得困难，有时间就多读两章，并且单词难度也不高。加油！加油！胜利在望！之所以是兔年第一本，因为《家事断舍离》这种看完了还是觉得有点水，像是几篇博客日志拼起来，虽说也有可取之处。这充分体现了我读书还是有鄙视链，对书籍要求还是会略高，否则即使读完了，也不把它当作正经阅读/(ㄒoㄒ)/，没有成就感，所以读的网文小说不算，这种也不算，总归对我来说，阅读最重要的还是为汲取知识，但也要尽量愉悦地汲取知识。
6.Teach What You Know.
they started out as beginners, and so they feel an obligation to pass on what they’ve learned.
初学者也可以分享和教授自己所知，只要是对他人helpful或者是interesting的东西。
Think about what you can share from your process that would inform the people you’re trying to reach. Have you learned a craft? What are your techniques? Are you skilled at using certain tools and materials? What kind of knowledge comes along with your job?
The minute you learn something, turn around and teach it to others. Share your reading list. Point to helpful reference materials. Create some tutorials and post them online. Use pictures, words, and video.
我们不一定只看艺术家的成品，也希望看到艺术家创作的过程，他们的手稿、草稿甚至弃稿，了解一件艺术品是如何被创造出来的。
7. Don’t Turn Into Human Spam.
They don’t want to pay their dues, they want their piece right here, right now.
the world owes none of us anything.
切忌：过度分享，完全以自我为中心，成为作者所说的Human Spam。
If you’re only pointing to your own stuff online, you’re doing it wrong. You have to be a connector.
这就是为什么，要分享your work而不是你的自拍、晚餐、咖啡和猫猫狗狗。我想我心中是隐约有这个概念的，所以我不怎么发社交媒体，尤其是发自拍和女性照片，偶尔跟朋友出行跟风发几次，也没什么特别的感觉。这也是为什么手机里存了很多照片和视频，却总是发不出去无法断舍离，因为我的感觉里，那完全是关于我自己，只能满足我的自恋，不能算有趣，也不可作为一种指南。要做一个连接者，去建立连接。
What you want is to follow and be followed by human beings who care about issues you care about. This thing we make together. This thing is about hearts and minds, not eyeballs.
我们需要的是找到有共同兴趣和关注点的人，而不是博得眼球，不是需要数据。所以关注有多少粉丝和点赞，或者搜寻如何俘获粉丝、获得高赞的法子也是浪费时间的做法。
Don’t waste your time reading articles about how to get more followers.
当别人问，你觉得你是一个有趣的人吗？或者你尝试让自己变得更有趣吗？听起来很mean，但如果换个方式理解＂有趣＂：
to be “interest-ing” is to be curious and attentive, and to practice “the continual projection of interest.” To put it more simply: If you want to be interesting, you have to be interested.
＂有趣＂就是好奇和专注，练习＂不断发射兴趣＂。更简单地说：如果你想变得有趣，你必须先感兴趣。
people you know can’t do anything for you if you’re not doing good work.
how many people waste time and energy trying to make connections instead of getting good at what they do, when “being good at things is the only thing that earns you clout or connections.”
Make stuff you love and talk about stuff you love and you’ll attract people who love that kind of stuff. It’s that simple.
上文说到，＂要做一个连接者，去建立连接。＂但建立连接，并不是所谓的经营人脉，我们的时间和精力要花在使自己变得更专业getting good at what we do，因为这是唯一可以赢得人脉和影响力的方法。
“Whatever excites you, go do it. Whatever drains you, stop doing it.”
无论什么，只要是让你兴奋的事，去做；让你筋疲力尽的，停止它。
比如无效社交，比如应酬应付，比如长时间浏览购物软件、浏览视频、浏览社交软件、上网，一整天刷剧、熬夜，囤货，比如疯狂囤书停不下来，沉迷于物品和表面的浮华。这些都是会让我筋疲力尽的事，应该列一个Not to do的坏习惯列表，减少次数。
The Vampire Test.
It’s a simple way to know who you should let in and out of your life. it works on many things in our lives, not just people—you can apply it to jobs, hobbies, places, etc.
If, after hanging out with someone you feel worn out and depleted, that person is a vampire. If, after hanging out with someone you still feel full of energy, that person is not a vampire.
如何让你的生活中填满那些让你兴奋的事，而不是让你筋疲力尽感觉被抽干的事？使用Vampire判断小测试，放逐那些＂吸血鬼＂！
当你使用这个小测试，发现某个人或某件事确实让你耗竭时，便可以放下心理负担地拒绝某个人或某件事。
比如对我来说，和室友逛街是毫无乐趣可言的。我要尽可能避免再次出现这种情况。以前我还会有心理压力，觉得拒绝不太好，以后得改了，有那时间干啥不好呢，干嘛让自己难受。
另外，不想漏过任何信息或推荐，也让我筋疲力尽。因为一来容易囤积，二来好似大海捞针的体验，绝不会有多愉快：在几百上千条的信息中，寻找那么一丁点可能有用的信息。
所以，为了不让自己耗竭，找对信息渠道很重要，或许有些聊天记录可以细看，但错过了其实也没什么。
Vampires cannot be cured.
你必须自己察觉、能够识别，然后主动采取行动。
Should you find yourself in the presence of a vampire, be like Brancusi, and banish it from your life forever.
Banish Vampires from your life forever！
永远放逐生活中的吸血鬼。
书中还提到一点，对我也很有启发。关于网络交友，也不知道是处于哪些潜意识和负面认知，我以前是很抗拒的。但近半年，我在网络上参加了一些小小的团体和社群，感觉非常好。如果能有网友变成真实生活中的朋友，可以约出来一起干饭，就更好了。
If we get sick of talking to one another, we can browse, and if we get sick of browsing, we can grab a coffee in the café.
Meeting people online is awesome, but turning them into IRL friends is even better.
