How to avoid hurting others

                      ---E-club dated May 22nd

From the piucture below, we can see that a girl is mending a heart sadly. I suppose that the heart is from one of her friends or her boyfriend. Why does she mend it? maybe she felt regret about what she said to him. However, whether can she mend a heart hurted? In my opinion, it’s difficult for everyone to make a heart well returned. In your lives, did you have any experience for hurting someone? When your mind recovered serenity, whether did you feel shocked due to your words? To avoid that, when you want to reject some suggestions from your friends, you should at least follow the the two ideas below .

First, before you reject politely, you should agree a part of their points. If you disagree the ideas from other people, it’s important that you can’t contradict their thought directly to avoid hurting their prides. You should agree a part of their ideas first, then you point out those mistakes. Meanwhile, you must analyze the cause why you disagree in detail. Finally, you can reject their points gently.

Second, when you communicate with someone, your words shoud contain some praises. As you know, all of us have strengths and weaknesses. By giving a compliments appropriately, this habits will make your business more smooth.

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How to avoid hurting others