if you seek to become radically
2020-07-09 本文已影响0人
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"If you have a different view than someone who is believable on the topic at hand—or at least more believable than you are (if, say, you are in a discussion with your doctor about your health)—you should make it clear that you are asking questions because you are seeking to understand their perspective. Conversely, if you are clearly the more believable person, you might politely remind the other of that and suggest that they ask you questions. All these strategies come together in two practices that, if you seek to become radically open-minded, you must master.
假如在某个问题上有一个人可信,或者至少 比你可信(例如当你和医生讨论你的健康状况的 时候),而你和他的观点不同,你就应该清楚, 你是在提问题,因为你是在试图理解对方的观 点。相反,如果你显然是双方中更可信的人,你 就应该礼貌地提醒对方这一点,并建议他向你提 问题。
所有上述策略都可以归结为两个做法。如果 你想要成为头脑极度开放的人,你就应该掌握。"