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What forces you to grow is not reason, but the wall.逼你成长的不是道理，是南墙"
Calmness" hides the character "strive": the more you want to strive, the calmer your heart must be;
"静”中藏了一个“争“字，越想争，心越要静;
"Steadiness" hides the character "rush": the more anxious you are, the steadier your heart must stay;
“稳”中藏了一个“急”字，越着急，心越要稳；
"Busyness" hides the character "perish": the busier you are, the more you must care for your health;
“忙"中藏了一个“亡"字，越忙，越要照顾身体;
"Forbearance" hides the character "blade": the more you forbear, the clearer you see the essence.
“忍"中藏了一个“刀“字，越忍，越能看清本质。
Words from those who've been through life’s trials fall on deaf ears of those who haven’t. If reason isn’t realized by yourself, no one’s words will work—everyone has their own walls to bump into. What truly persuades a person is never reason, but the wall; what truly awakens a person is never preaching, but hardships. Suffering losses is like eating: eat enough, and growth comes naturally.
过来人的话，没过来的人是听不进去的。如果道理不是自己悟出来的，谁说都没用，每个人都有自己的南墙要撞。能说服一个人的，从来不是道理，而是南墙；能点醒一个人，从来不是说教，而是磨难，吃亏和吃饭一样，吃多了自然会成长。
Walk with shoes off, and you’ll know the ground’s temperature; live with masks off, and you’ll feel the world’s warmth and cold. A person’s clarity is earned through extraordinary experiences; a person’s vision is expanded by all kinds of grievances. Respect the rules, take everything slow, stay calm and unhurried, and trust that everything is the best arrangement!
脱下鞋子走路，才知地面温度，摘下面具做人，方觉人间冷暖。一个人的通透，是不寻常经历换来的，一个人的格局，是被各种委屈撑大的。尊重规律，一切慢慢来，不慌不乱，相信一切都是最好的安排!