11个坏习惯背后的原因（英译中）

如果你的孩子总是故意打扰你，其实是因为你和他缺乏肢体接触，缺乏亲密感。
如果你的孩子撒谎，其实这说明你曾经对他犯过的错误反应过度。
如果你的孩子缺乏自信心，其实是因为你往往倾向于告诉他们怎么做，而非鼓励他们自己做。
如果你的孩子不敢捍卫自己的权利，其实是因为你在他们小时候总是在公开场合训斥他们。即使是在兄弟姐妹、朋友、表亲面前也不该这么做。
如果你什么东西都给孩子买，但他们依旧去拿那些不属于他们的东西，这其实是因为你不让他们自己选择想要的东西。
如果你的孩子很懦弱，那其实是因为你总是在他们遇到困难时就立刻帮忙。不要把孩子成长道路上的每个障碍都扫清。
如果你的孩子嫉妒心很重，那可能是因为你总是拿别的孩子和他们比较。
如果你的孩子很容易生气，那其实是因为你给他们的赞扬不够，他们只能靠做些失礼的事来吸引你的注意力。
如果你的孩子不会尊重别人的感受，那是因为你总是命令他们，是因为你不尊重他们的感受。
如果你的孩子总是神神秘秘的，什么都不告诉你，那是因为你总是爱打击他们。
如果你的孩子总是行为粗鲁没礼貌，那其实是从家长或者身边的人那里学来的。

If your child always bother you on purpose.Because you are not physical contact、intimacy enough.

If your child lying,it meanings you overreacted in his mistakes before.

If your child lacks confidence，because you always advice them more than encourage them.

If your child doesn't know defend their right，because you check them out when they are in a young age even in front of siblings,friends,cousins you shouldn't do.

If you buy everything for your child,but they still takes things that don't belong to them ,it's because you don't choose things by themselves.

If your child is a coward，because you always help them quickly.Don't clear obstacles on the way of growth.

If your child is jealous, the reason maybe is you always compare them with others.

If your child gets angry easy,it's because you haven't praised them enough.They only get a attention by something rude.

If your child doesn't respect other's feelings,it's because you always order them，don't care about their feelings.

If you child always secretive，because you always like beat them.

If your child rude,it's learn from parents or other people.