Prejudice

Today, I had lunch with my colleagues and they naged about our another colleague from another apartment. I heard that colleague’s gossips so many times and I once found her tampering the information of our customer. I despise her all the time. And the more I hear our colleagues talking about her, the more I’m sure how bad she is. And when they talked about her again today, I found one awful thing happened to me. I found I have regarded her as a rather bad and ugly person and I’m controlled by my emotions which is deadly wrong. Such emotions will mislead me. When I came back to office later, I felt my anger about her when I saw her. I felt so uncomfortable sitting back to back with such a vicious woman. When she spoke, I even wanted to cover my ears. My metacognition told me what I was thinking at that moment was deadly wrong and I should change.

Although she has little work ethics but I have to admit she works really hard. People who profit well in our company are those who stay long and work hard all the time. I have to admit I never work so hard like them. I’ve come to this company half a year and if I worked like them, I could make much bigger progress.

What I should do is to learn and imitate other’s good behaviors instead of gossiping about what the other people’s so called bad morals and pay more attention to my work.