Who moved my cheese

有时候，事情发生了改变，就再也变不回原来的样子了。这就是生活！生活在变化，日子在住前走，我们也应随之改变，而不是在原地踟蹰不前。

《Who moved my cheese》是我用奶爸透析法阅读的第一篇原著，虽然这本书的首万词不重复词数只有1396，而且蓝思值也很低，但是以我历史遗留的英语缺陷读起来还是有点吃力，不过读完了还是知道他在说什么，虽然有许多地方不懂。

• 读书笔记

世界不会因为我们每个人会有所改变，世界一直在以他独有的方式悄然改变着，如果我们不能拥抱这种改变，就只会被淘汰。
前几天有一个哥们还和我开玩笑说：“XX，你变了”，我一本正经的和他说：“不，我没变，变得是世界”。虽然很不想承认，但又不得不承认，我们每天都在改变着。
我们不想被人提及抑或是说自己也很不想承认自己改变了，是我们对change的畏惧，因为我们不知道当别人说自己变了时具体是一种什么样的意思，是说变好了呢，还是变坏了呢?也就是Ham口中的afraid，Ham问：“WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU WEREN'T AFRAID?”

随想

• 前几天我自己也发过一个朋友圈，意思就是我发现现在自己变成了以前非常反感甚至说厌恶的那种，我要重新找回当初那种洒脱的感觉。
  但很戏剧性的就在哪个朋友圈发完之后碰到了我以前绝对无法忍受的事情，但是我并没有像以前那样做，而是很心平气和的当做这件事并没有发生，而且还劝替我打抱不平的哥们，退一步海阔天空。（以前我一直认为退一步开阔天空这句话就是教科书上那么说说而已）
• 我一直很有自信，抑或自负，如果关注爱屋及乌的朋友应该知道。这个网站，我一开始域名准备是叫ilikeyoulike的，因为我相信我喜欢的你一定会喜欢，后来还是一室友说youlikeilike比较好。这也算是一种change吧~
• 老人常说：“变坏容易，变好难”。我一直认为无论变好变坏都是一念之间，变坏为什么容易？因为坏有时意味着无拘无束，随心所欲。而好往往意味着束缚，束缚也许来自社会，亲戚，朋友抑或爱人。而改变最可怕的其实就是你对未知的恐惧或者说变化之后的恐惧。这点我很欣慰，从小养成了无所畏惧的性格，我一直认为未知的，正是我想去追寻的，因为未知它具有着不可知的魅力吸引着我们去憧憬，向往，追寻。

拥抱变化固然重要，但我还是认为有些东西不需要刻意的去改变
一个的性格，一个人的底线，一个人的骄傲，一个人的自尊如果轻易的为了什么而改变，那样只会让人觉得你这个人不值得相信

• 虽然我并不是很老，但也算有点阅历。我见过好多人因为金钱，而放弃自己一直恪守着的东西；我也见过好多人因为那所谓的“爱情”，去放弃自己的尊严，放弃自己的底线。我没有鄙视的意思，只能说与自己的价值观并不一样。

避免被喷，所以解释：心理学认为，道德判断的结果主要受俩个动机的印象：①维护与他人的关系；②维护自身连贯的世界观和价值观。你判断一件事是否道德，还取决于一直以来认为自己是怎么样的一个人。所以，这件事到底对不对，可以不可以，完全取决于你所处的社会环境，以及你是怎么样的一个人。

• 我认为不要为了什么而轻易的去改变自己一直以来所坚持的。比如，金钱，你要相信，以你的能力，你的才华，你的知识是能够改变自己的经济条件的，而不是放下身段抑或XXXXX才能拥有；再比如，感情，你要相信你能，如果不能，那就提升自我，你要相信你会遇见更好的。这玩意太玄学了，还要靠缘分：七分天注定三分靠打拼~就像那个去年很火的朱伟说的：“少一点功利性的追求，多一点不为什么的坚持”
• overwhatch中说的“记住，永远不要只满足世界的表象，要勇于探索未知的可能~”

《who moved my cheese》标注

1. THE MORE IMPORTANT YOUR CHEESE IS TO YOU THE MORE YOU WANT TO HOLD ON TO IT.
2. "things change and they are never the same again. This looks like one of those times, Hem. That's life! Life moves on. And so should we."
3. IF YOU DO NOT CHANGE, YOU CAN BECOME EXTINCT.
4. WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOU WEREN'T AFRAID?
5. He knew sometimes some fear can be good. When you are afraid things are going to get worse, if you don't do something, it can prompt you into an action. But it is not good when you are afraid that it keeps you from doing anything.
6. SMELL THE CHEESE OFTEN SO YOU KNOW WHEN IT IS GETTING OLD.
7. MOVEMENT IN A NEW DIRECTION HELPS YOU FIND NEW CHEESE.
8. WHEN YOU MOVE BEYOND YOUR FEAR, YOU FEEL FREE.
9. IMAGINING MYSELF ENJOYING NEW CHEESE EVEN BEFORE I FIND IT, LEADS ME TO IT.
10. THE QUICKER YOU LET GO OF OLD CHEESE, THE SOONER YOU FIND NEW CHEESE.
11. IT IS SAFER TO SEARCH IN THE MAZE THAN REMAIN IN A CHEESELESS SITUATION.
12. The fear you let build up in your mind is worse than the situation that actually exits.
13. He used to think more about what could go wrong than what could go right.
14. it was natural for change to continually occur, whether you expect it or not. Change could surprise you only if you didn't expect it and weren't looking for it.
15. OLD BELIEFS DO NOT LEAD YOU TO NEW CHEESE.
16. He knew when you change what you believe, you change what you do.
17. You can believe that a change will harm you and resist it. Or you can believe that finding New Cheese will help you to embrace the changed.
18. WHEN YOU SEE THAT YOU CAN FIND AND ENJOY NEW CHEESE, YOU CHANGE COURSE.
19. NOTICING SMALL CHANGES EARLY HELPS YOU ADAPT TO THE BIGGER CHANGES THAT ARE TO COME.
20. Then he laughed and realized that he had started to change as soon as he had learned to laugh at himself and at what he had been doing wrong. He realized the fastest way to change is to laugh at your own folly - then you can let go and quickly move on.
21. You could be more aware of the need to keep things simple, be flexible, and move quickly. You did not need to overcomplicate matters or confuse yourself with fearful beliefs. You could notice when the little changes began so that you would be better prepared for the big change that might be coming.
22. THE HANDWRITING ON THE WALL CHANGE HAPPENS THEY KEEP MOVING THE CHEESE ANTICIPATE CHANGE GET READY FOR THE CHEESE TO MOVE MONITOR CHANGE SMELL THE CHEESE OFTEN SO YOU KNOW WHEN IT IS GETTING OLD ADAPT TO CHANGE QUICKLY THE QUICKER YOU LET GO OF OLD CHEESE,THE SOONER YOU CAN ENJOY NEW CHEESE CHANGE MOVE WITH THE CHEESE ENJOY CHANGE! SAVOR THE ADVENTURE AND ENJOY THE TASTE OF NEW CHEESE BE READY TO CHANGE QUICKLY AND ENJOY IT AGAIN THEY KEEP MOVING THE CHEESE ANTICIPATE CHANGE GET READY FOR THE CHEESE TO MOVE MONITOR CHANGE SMELL THE CHEESE OFTEN SO YOU KNOW WHEN IT IS GETTING OLD ADAPT TO CHANGE QUICKLY THE QUICKER YOU LET GO OF OLD CHEESE,THE SOONER YOU CAN ENJOY NEW CHEESE CHANGE MOVE WITH THE CHEESE ENJOY CHANGE! SAVOR THE ADVENTURE AND ENJOY THE TASTE OF NEW CHEESE BE READY TO CHANGE QUICKLY AND ENJOY IT AGAIN THEY KEEP MOVING THE CHEESE
23. "What would you do if you weren't afraid?"
24. I think some things shouldn't change. For example, I want to hold on to my basic values. But I realize now that I would be better off if I had moved with the 'Cheese' a lot sooner in my life."

读完了原著，感觉还有好多不懂得，所以我又把中文的读了一遍

1. 有时候，事情发生了改变，就再也变不回原来的样子了。我们现在遇到的情况就是这样。这就是生活！生活在变化，日子在住前走，我们也应随之改变，而不是在原地踟蹰不前。”
2. 如果你不改变，你就会被淘汰。
3. 如果你无所畏惧，你会怎样做呢？
4. 迟做总比不做好。”
5. 如果我无所畏惧，我又会怎样做呢？”
6. 当你超越了自己的恐惧时，你就会感到轻松自在。
7. 为什么自己过去总是觉得变化会使事情变得更糟。而现在他认识到，变化将会使事情变得更好。
8. 你可以相信，变化对你有害，你可以拒绝它；或者，你会相信寻找新奶酪对你有好处，你会拥抱这种变化。
9. 当你改变了自己的信念，你也就改变了自己的行为。
10. 尽早注意细小的变化，这将有助于你适应即将来临的更大的变化。
11. 他已经学会自嘲了，而当人们学会自嘲，能够嘲笑自己的愚蠢和所做的错事时，他就在开始改变了。他甚至觉得，改变自己的最快方式，就是坦然嘲笑自己的愚笨——这样，你就能对过往云烟轻松释然，迅速行动起来，直面变化。
12. 有些畏惧是需要加以认真对待的，它会帮助你避开真正的危险。但绝大部分的恐惧都是不明智的，它们只会在你需要改变的时候，使你回避这种改变。 唧唧曾经那样地惧怕改变，他真的希望生活能够永远按照原有的样子继续，但现在他意识到，生活并不会遵从某个人的愿望发展。改变随时有可能降临，但积极地面对改变却会让你发现更好的奶酪，真的是塞翁失马，焉知非福。

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