还是要乐观，心碎了就对自己说：碎碎平安

前两天看书的时候看到这样一段话：

This is the story no one's going to tell you, but you will experience for sure:

Life is when you came as a bundle of joy to your parents' life.

Life is the excitement of carrying the school bag for the first time.

Life is standing outside the classroom with your friends as punishment.

Life is crushing on the girl or boy from

college while your friends give you company.

Life is getting rejected in a job interview and celebrating failure with a party with friends.

Life is the time you did something you're afraid of doing.

Life is getting over that scratch on your new car.

Life is decorating your new home.

Life is having sleepless nights with your little kid and going to office tired the next day.

Life is shedding a tear of joy watching your kid dance at annual function.

Life is getting that weekend trip with your partner, while your kids are away.

Life is stealing a kiss from your 40-year-old partner when your kids are home.

Life is completing the marathon at the age of 60.

Life is telling stories to your grandchildren.

Life is in the little things.

And only little things matter because one day you'll look back and realize that those were the big things.

看完就莫名的感动和有表达欲，是的吧，从来没有堂课或是一个人来告诉你，生活是什么，但这是你必须去经历的。生活是你第一次背上书包时的兴奋，是你面试失败时的失落，是你正在做一直不敢做的事……。生活正在装饰你的新家，与你共度不眠之夜。

很多很多的小事构成了我们的生活。一个打击就能让自己坠入崖底，一个期许又足够让你从悬崖跃起。

我好像越来越物质了，比起很多很多的爱，更想要很多很多钱，因为我发现很多我喜欢的事情都要用金钱助力，为了得到它们，我必须很努力来根除心中所有的懒惰，还得做好很长一段时间看不到希望的准备。

最近有些桑，一点小小的不如意都能成为最后一篇雪花，彻底将自己击溃，其实想想，什么都没发生，那些令自己崩溃的，不过是日后不值一提的小事，却感觉自己在泥潭， 在深渊， 在低谷 ​​​。

值得庆幸的是，没有哪一次难过会揪住我不放的，第一天晚上能让自己哭到鼻青脸肿的事，第二天醒来只觉得可惜了那些眼泪，明明生活很美好啊，难过是会自己蒸发掉的，人都有强大的自愈能力。人还是要乐观，心碎了就对自己说岁岁平安。哈哈哈，最艰难的时候 ， 别老想着太远的将来  只要鼓励自己熬过今天就好 。

不那么好过的日子里，要学会每天给自己

找一个开心的理由，哪怕只是，阳光很暖，电量很满。

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What is life？

Life is a combination of happiness and suffering。