Are you a shy people?

#天天用英语之写作30篇# No.1

2017元旦，报名了李笑来老师的“天天用英语”活动，跟着“天天用英语”每天阅读一篇英文，虽然到现在已经过去130天，但我只是阅读了大概40天，不过已经感觉到了很大的进步。

因为每天的阅读属于“输入”，于是发现我读了那么多，积累了那么多句型和生词，过一段时间后再回顾发现自己已经忘记一大半文章的内容，更别提灵活运用文章的句型了。

所以决定把天天用英语真的“用”起来。现在开始，如果觉得写得好的文章，实用性强的，我就把文章中写的好的段落和生词组合改写一下，再加上一些自己的话变成一篇文章。另外，在学校自己创办的英语社团中组建一个口语角，我就把自己写的话题发布给大家，然后早上的时候一起进行话题表达。这样就充分利用了天天用英语的学习内容，有输入也有输出。

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Are you a shy people?

Generally, we often feel shy about our own shyness. For me, i am very much a shy girl,but my friends surrounding me may feel surprised about what I say. Absolutely, I always look like confident ,easygoing and lively in front of them. However ,that’s just because I am familiar with them , then i can show my real personality. You may say shyness is a trivial matter for me while only I know that these feelings always influence me  and i need to work hard to get rid of it .

Many people may think that shyness permeates (渗入) every situation,but according a research proved that it “ebbs and flows” depending on the context.  For instance, I feel more relaxed and comfortable leading the morning reading no matter how many people in my own english society ,but my self-confidence is more precarious when I need to do the same thing in a different and unfamiliar situation like in joystime and in other school. Also, i find it a piece of cake to give a short speech in a large group where i always stay , but unsure how to speak boldly in front of a totally different environment.  

Also,not all shy people are introverts. As Susan Cain, author of the book Quiet, has also regularly pointed out, the two are quite different. While introverts may need time by themselves, while not necessarily caring what others think of them (Cain uses the example of Bill Gates) a shy person may well crave company, while also feeling nervous and anxious about the way they are perceived（察觉）. In this way it is perfectly possible to be a shy extrovert – to simultaneously （同时）fear and crave（渴望得到、乞求） the limelight（引人注目、注意的中心）. Therefore, to a most degree,i am a shy extrovert and i always crave company and limelight while also feel nervous about the situation.

However,we should realize that shyness doesn’t often prevent success. There are benefits that shyness bring to us .Recent studies on animal personalities have charted the “shy-bold spectrum(系列、范围）” in a range of species,finding that it often pays for some individuals to be timid and anxious. Whereas the braver animals may find more mates and eat more food, the shyer individuals,hiding on the side-lines,might avoid attack.

Many people have confessed（承认） to feeling social awkwardness or embarrassment regularly. “One of the mistakes you can make when you are shy is to think that you are very unusual in the way you are interacting with people – but some of these problems are universal.”  

So you are not alone . Just accept who you are and magnify the power of shyness.