AFC理论雏形（2）

No matter you are young or old, you need to understand this world, including the people you see, the things you experience. Although you are not an actor on TV, but you are an actor in the life. You are always acting no matter you are sleeping or not.

虽然你不是电视上的演员，但是你在生活里一定是表演家。无论你是否入眠，你都在“活动”。

So face the barriers bravely. All the hard time are the best strengther. If you wanna fly, then do it, not real flying in the sky, but fly in your own dream.

所以勇敢地面对障碍吧。所有的艰苦岁月都是最有效的成长催化剂。如果你想飞，那就飞吧，不是在天空中，而是异想天开。

Haveyou grown-up now? If yes, you may be over 18 years old. If no, you also maybe. So I wanna talk about psychological age. If age is a thing, a ball, you pick one ball and then get the characters of the balls you pick. Then if you are 18, have you grown-up? No matter your answer is yes or no, that’s not the real answer maybe. There is no exact definition of growing up. But you can grow uo, no matter who you are.

You need to experience break-up with somebody even your family.

You need to breathze the mixed air.

You need to walk a long way from day to night.

Youneed to be noemal and there will be someone forcing you to be abnormal.

You need to obey the social rules but the more significant thing is that you need your own rules in your mind and heart.

You need to find where freedomis and what freedom is. And when you know all about freedom, you will have known how to be free.

You need to know about animals and why human can be free but animals need zoos.

You need to like yourself, although sometimes you hate yourself.

You need to experience the wind, the storms and so on, no matter in social life or virual life.

You need to mix two things and spart them. I mean you need to know the distinctof “accept” and “receive”.

You need to know acting and speaking are not the same.

You need to study how to use apps and how to follow this time.

That’s AFC, accept—face—cherish.

你已经长大了吗？如果你的答案是长大了，那么你也许已经18岁了。如果你的答案是否定的，那么你可能也已满18岁了。所以我想说的是心理年龄。我们把年龄比作一个个写着数字的小球，你随便在箱子中抓起来一个球当做你的心理年龄。这时候，如果你的数字是18岁，你长大了吗？无论你的答案是是还是否，那也许都不是真正准确的答案。因为并没有确切的长大成人的含义。

但是你可以长大，无论你是谁。

你需要经历别离甚至是和自己的至亲。

你需要呼吸浑浊不堪的空气。

你需要从白天走到黑夜。

你需要是正常的，但总会有人强迫你变得不正常。

你需要遵守社会的规则但是更重要的事是你需要你在自己的脑海中和心灵里有自己的原则。

你需要寻找自由在哪里和认知自由是何物。并且当你真的了解所有关于自由的东西以后，你就已经学会怎么自由了。

你需要喜欢你自己，虽然有时候你会讨厌你自己。

你需要体验狂风，体验暴雨等等，不论是在现实生活还是虚拟生活。

你需要混合两个东西然后再把它们区分开，比如分清主动接受和被动接受。

你需要知道行动和语言是不一样的。

你需要学习怎么使用软件，以及怎样跟上这个时代。

这就是AFC理论，接受现实，面对万物，珍惜所有。