2021-10-19 table topic for Alex

我最近在做什么（table topic for Alex）

谢谢sucre的问题，I can real feel the stress now：）
这是一个很好的问题，很多人是奔波于家庭和工作，而对于我这种 仍然大龄单身的社会不稳定因子，是工作相亲两点一线（因为 是在急诊工作，吃住都在医院，省去了通勤时间）
很多人都排斥亲戚与朋友安排的相亲，但很遗憾，我不是其中的一个，如果还有什么事情，可以在我的生活增加一点变量与色彩的话，相亲是一个，像我们这样的年轻人，如果我还算年轻的话，很少有机会 能够大范围接触到各行各业 而且是短时间内深入了解身边小伙伴的工作环境，生活状态，家庭喜好，情绪状态，相亲恰恰提供了一个很好的抽样样本机会，在相亲见面前， 你永远不知道，你将会摸到怎样的一张牌？就像阿甘正传里面说，Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you are going to get.”

当然，与做抽样样本不同的是，我也是对方样本的一部分。

我平常喜欢做什么？
1 去相亲
2 去看 second-hand apartment(不是真的去买，trust me，I don't have that much money）
一个是通过人 去感受这个社会背后的故事与价值取向，一个是通过物，去感受一个家庭的历史与印记，
相信我，有时候一个普通家庭的背后故事 甚至比松本清张的社会派本格推理小说更有趣，
有很多人喜欢玩模拟人生，而真实世界的冒险元素丰富程度岂是一个游戏所能企及的。

What are my recent stresses?（table topic for Alex）
Thanks for the question from sucre, I can feel the stress now :)
This is a good question, many people are running between family and work, but for me, as a single and socially unstable variable, always on my way to dating from work (because I work in the emergency room, I eat and live in the hospital, which saves me commuting time)

Many people reject blind dates arranged by relatives and friends.
But unfortunately, I am not one of them. If there is anything that can add a little variable and color to my life, dating is one.

Young people like me, if I were still young, rarely have the opportunity to get in touch with a wide range of people from all walks of life and get to know the working environment, living conditions, family preferences and emotional states of the people around us in a short period of time. Like Forrest Gump says, "Life is like a box of chocolates, you never know what you are going to get."

Of course, unlike being a sampling sample, I am part of the other sample.

What do I usually like to do?
1 Go on blind dates
2 go look at second-hand apartments (not really to buy, trust me, I don't have that much money)
One is to feel the story and values behind the society through people, and the other is to feel the history and imprint of a family through objects.
Believe me, sometimes the story behind an ordinary family is even more interesting than Kiyoharu Matsumoto's socialist Benge novels.
There are many people who like to play the Sims, and the richness of real-world adventure elements is not a game can reach.