写在年末

几个开始相信的道理：
1、最复杂的东西也是简单的，“大道至简”。
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3、空

发现在工作之后才意识到建立知识体系、思维方式是怎么一回事，捉急。这是工作给我最大的礼物了。学习一块新知识的关键是要先抛出问题，为什么我会感兴趣？我通过学习能解答哪些疑惑？等等。要制造和挖掘学习它的动力。

如果把如何度过一生作为一个学习的对象。我会提出哪几个问题呢？问题需不超过三个。
1、什么对我最重要？
2、我要成为什么样的人？
3、要和什么样的人一起走下去？

现在的回答（可能以后会变）
1、父母（他们还是我遇到绝大部分问题时求助的人，能真的帮助我解决问题），朋友（是除父母外我可以交流和信赖的人），另一半（慢慢最终会变成我最重要的人），健康（我喜欢自己处在好的状态）。

2、这个问题我觉得最难。只写三条每条尽可能具体。
成为温柔又无所畏惧的人；
成为内心强大又知道总有人在那儿支持我的人；
成为不会停止发现生活的美好又充满行动力的人；

3、也是三条。能规划大事情，言出必行，对未来充满期待和信心。

Some words I started to believe:
1. Complexity out of simplicity.

It kind of upsets me that only when I started to work did I really know the importance of building the knowledge system and the way of thinking. The key of learning a new field of knowledge is to ask questions first. Why am I interested in it ? What are the puzzles on this subject etc ? One has to create that motivation.

Say I am going to study "How to spend my life". What kinds of questions should I ask ?

1. What matters most to me ?
2. What kind of man I want to be ?
3. What kind of person I want to be with ?

Answers for now ( it may change ) :

1. Parents ( they are the ones I turn to in most cases and they really help me to solve problems), Friends ( these are the people I like and trust), "He" ( will be the most important person to me eventully), Health ( it's owesome to be in good state).

2. The hardest one to answer. I want to make it less but concrete.
   To be a gentle and fearless man.
   A person who is strong inside and have people there ready to support you.
   Never stop seeing the beauty of life and make things happen.

3. Make plans on important things, a man of his word, be positive and confident about the future.