情商为要——读通札记(672)
2019-10-08 本文已影响0人
趙國龍淼
讀文白對照本《卷六十六》,感:1、情商為要。汉高祖刘邦,痛恨儒生,撒尿高冠,破口大骂:腐儒、竪儒、酸儒,成事不足,败事有余,百无一用,是书生!文学斗士,民族脊梁鲁迅,更是刀笔如神,刻画“窃书不算偷”孔乙己,书呆子,入木三分;等等!何也,国人如此鄙视儒生?答:迂腐,不通情理,没有情商!通覽历史,俯瞰古今,为人处世,情商为要,第一!三国初,刘备长板大败,妻儿皆失,狼狈不堪;赵云浴血奋战,夺回阿斗刘禅,刘无以为赏,怒摔阿斗,且言:几近失我大将!赵云跪闻,倍感涕零,誓死效忠!后,遂有蜀汉得立!清曹雪芹,《红楼梦》更言:世事洞明皆学问,人情練達即文章!故得,一個好漢,三個幫,为人处世,情商为要!要从身边人做起,要从小事做起,从点滴做起,从记住身边人生日且祝福做起,推而广之,真诚待人好,相处不累!共勉!







