日更第六篇‖别拿别人和自己身边人对比

  文/安瑞娜

  Dad opened a tremulous video，let's see，in the video，a little girl of sevral years old was standing on a stool holding a spatula and stirfrying in a big pot.

  爸爸打开一个抖音的视频，让我们看，视频里一个几岁大的小女孩站在凳子上手持一个锅铲在大锅里翻炒。

  The title is Children from a rural family。

  标题是:“农村家的孩子”。

  I said to my brother:“look，others”.

  我就对我弟弟说:“你看，人家”。

  My young  brother is angry:“Don't compare me with others”.

  弟弟就生起气来:“不要拿我跟别人比较嘛！”

  This kind of scene has appeared more than three times，and I don't know  why I can't help saying such things.

  这种场景出现了不下三次，我也不知道为什么总是控制不住自己要说出这种话。

  I have also been used by my grandmother to compare with others since childhood，from  childhood to adulthood，children of other families are good at everything.While I am not good at everything.

  我也从小被婆婆用来和别人比较 ，从小到大，别人家的孩子做什么都是好的，而我做什么都不好。

  I will also answer:“then you let then be your grandchildren ”.

  我也总会回答:“那你让他们做你的孙子/孙女”。

  Am I infected？In fact，I hate being compared.

  难道我被传染了？其实我很讨厌自己被拿来做比较的。

  In the end，I became such a person.

  最后，我也成为了这种人。

  Every time my family mentions me and other people's children.I always look disdainful，Very agitated and very resistant.

  每次，当家人提起我和别人家的孩子，我总是一副不屑的表情，很烦躁也很抵抗。

  I think everyone has his own merits，Isn't it selfinflicted injury to compare what others are good at with yourself.

  我认为每一个人都有其闪光点，拿别人擅长的事跟自己做比较，这不是自找伤害吗？

  So，don't let the comparison pull us apart.

  所以，那就别让比较拉开了我们之间的距离。

  Give full play to own speciality and learn from others .

  发挥自己的特长，学习别人的长处。