成熟的爱

到底成熟的爱是什么？

我想是各自的独立而完整，可以结伴而行，可以亲密无间，但我们都是独立完整的自己。

一个完整快乐的人，才有能力付出爱，

才有心力去欣赏接纳别人的爱。

自己的快乐，自己负责；自己的生命，自己上色。

愿你我都成为一个自足自爱的人。

不仅是在婚姻爱情中，

也包括和我们身边所有人的相处，

包括我们的父母，包括我们的孩子。

愿你我都是各自独立完整的个体，

拥有成熟的爱，爱自己，爱生活！

What is mature love?

I think they are independent and complete.

You can travel together, you can be

intimate.

But we are all independent and complete ourselves.

Only when a complete and happy person has the ability to give love, can he have the energy to appreciate and accept the love of others.

Be responsible for your own happiness，

Your own life, color yourself.

May you and I both become self-sufficient and self-loving people.

Not only in marriage and love

Including getting along with all the people around us.

Including our parents, including our children,

May you and I all be independent and complete individuals, and we can all have mature love to love ourselves and love life!