陈海贤·家庭关系21讲
2021-02-03 本文已影响0人
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发刊词 一个心理学家的家庭攻略
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01 总论:为什么家让人又爱又怨?
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02 系统视角:如何理解家庭的问题?
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03 关系视角:如何解读事实背后的关系?
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04 结构视角:如何认识家庭等级的作用?
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05 发展视角:如何看待家庭的生命周期?
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06 结合:建立新家庭难在哪里?
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07 外交:如何处理与伴侣原生家庭的关系?
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08 原生家庭:如何理解“过成了父母的样子”?
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09 改变:如何超越原生家庭的影响?
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10 治理:如何建立家庭规则?
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11 边界:为什么不能玩“权力的游戏”?
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12 父母的诞生:如何应对新生命的加入?
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13 纠缠1:父母和孩子成了“冤家”怎么办?
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14 纠缠2:如何挣脱过度的忠诚?
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15 疏离:父母和孩子成了“陌生人”怎么办?
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16 错位:孩子“早当家”一定是好事吗?
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17 独立:孩子“长不大”怎么办?
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18 青春期:如何与“叛逆”的孩子对话?
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19 离婚:分开了,如何不伤着孩子?
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20 疗愈:什么样的家庭才是好家庭?
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21 自我发展与家庭发展:一部生命史
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