爱的温度

一度非常喜欢一首歌《only love 》,每次单曲循环都能听好久。

Two.a.m.and the rain is falling

Here we are at the crossroads once again

You're telling me you're so confused

You can't make up your mind

Is this meant to be

You're asking me

But only love can say try again or walk away

But I believe for you and me

The sun will shine one day

So I'll just play my part

Pray you'll have a change of heart

But I can't make you see it through

That's something only love can do

In your arms as the dawn is breaking

Face to face and a thousand miles apart

I've tried my best to make you see

There's hope beyond the pain

If we give enough - if we learn to trust

But only love can say - try again or walk away

But I believe for you and me

The sun will shine one day

So I'll just play my part

Pray you'll have a change of heart

But I can't make you see it through

That's something only love can do

I know if I could find the words

to touch you deep inside

You'd give our dream just one more chance

Don't let this be our last goodbye

But only love can say - try again or walk away

But I believe for you and me

The sun will shine one day

So I'll just play my part

Pray you'll have a change of heart

But I can't make you see it through

That's something only love can do

That's something only love can do

爱不是锦上添花或者委曲求全的讨好跪舔，看新人笑容易，看旧人哭而依然有怜惜之心，却不易。

我经常喜欢看年长的夫妻，看他们步履蹒跚却依然牵手同行，就会觉得很温暖，有时候偷听到一些，絮絮叨叨的聊天，连几根葱做个小菜也能聊的有滋有味的，烟火气十足却让人觉得好有内涵，很有岁月的沉淀在里面。任岁月染发鬓，任风雨刻沧桑，在恩爱的老夫老妻眼里，对方的每一条皱纹，似乎都包含着过往岁月的柔情和智慧，一颦一笑都能唤醒很多有爱的记忆，特别是时不时不经意的“秀恩爱”的虐狗行为，更是让我们汗颜。

我大舅前年去世时90多岁，依然在念叨65岁就去世的舅妈，念叨了20多年，仿似孤独了20多年没有人管的老小孩，因为他们在一起的时候，感情非常好，特别是舅妈刚去世那几年，想不到一贯内敛的舅舅，每逢想到老妻，都会潸然泪下。表姐说，他们一同经历过兵荒马乱的日子，经历过非常拮据的日子，也经历过养儿育女的艰辛，从没见过美男子大舅落泪，是舅妈的去世，让他们子女真正的看到了夫妻之间的感情至深。

很多时候，我们看不到平淡的柴米油盐里有什么情爱，也看不到日常你来我往的对话，有什么温度，更甚至，我们被霸屏的都市剧，情感剧洗脑到，以为真爱必然有很多轰轰烈烈，超出常规的行为，让人疯狂的，才叫真爱，让人死了都爱的，那样极致的，纯粹的，浓烈的，才叫真爱。

过刚易折，情深不寿，为爱疯狂的，往往让我们看到揪心的结局，所以有些人选择平淡就好，宁可久一点。

我们多希望爱能够久一点，能够纯粹一些啊，在面对如此纷纷扰扰，熙熙攘攘的人世间。

其实，每个人心里都是爱的源泉，当你自我圆满的时候，爱满自溢，你会发自内心的去拥抱世上的一切，允许一切如是。