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生活系列:敏捷亲子-每日家庭健康,家庭价值观,时间盒,早晨清单

2017-05-18  本文已影响102人  glenwang真北敏捷

每日家庭检查和家庭价值观来自@Javier Gomez,时间盒和早晨清单是我对他的回复,其中早晨清单来自@虎头锤。

爱,智慧,娱乐是基础。

每日家庭检查

灵感来自Henrik的Spotify Agile Health Check

每天睡前一家人对三个问题标红黄绿。

How did I behave today?

How did I listen today?

How did I interact with others today?

这里体现了吾日三省吾身的精神。

但评估的对象是否针对个人,需要商榷。

生活系列:敏捷亲子-每日家庭健康,家庭价值观,时间盒,早晨清单

家庭价值观

用动物代表价值观。

1.写出动物列表。

生活系列:敏捷亲子-每日家庭健康,家庭价值观,时间盒,早晨清单

2. 每人选若干动物,不能选别人选的,每人选的数量等于总人数,打点。

生活系列:敏捷亲子-每日家庭健康,家庭价值观,时间盒,早晨清单

4. 每人把自己选的动物从上到下写在便利贴上。

5.传给右边的人。

6. 每人从列中拿掉一个不重要的。说明理由。

7. 再传给右边的人。

8. 再拿,直到每人手上只剩一个。

生活系列:敏捷亲子-每日家庭健康,家庭价值观,时间盒,早晨清单

9.对剩下的动物投票排序,说明理由。

生活系列:敏捷亲子-每日家庭健康,家庭价值观,时间盒,早晨清单

10.最终确定家庭动物。

这是对家庭价值观的很好的练习。

生活系列:敏捷亲子-每日家庭健康,家庭价值观,时间盒,早晨清单

参考:管理3.0实战之团队价值观


时间盒

运用时间盒

早晨清单

不再吼孩子起床的秘籍

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Hi Javier,

Your practices are very nice.

I believe 3 things are the base stones for agile family and agile parenting: love, wisdom and fun.

Your family animals exercise is very interesting. I believe over time you will use the same exercise to develop real family values.

For the daily family agile health check, I would suggest to add a family light which sums individual lights.

And I will introduce 2 other practices.

One is time box. It's simple. For example, if your family is planning to go out and you want your kids wear clothes and shoes quickly, it doesn't work if you only say we should be quickly. In stead, you can say, 5 minutes timebox to wear clothes and shoes. Make timebox a powerfull language.

Timebox can be used in any senario as a positive strength other than a punishment.

For example, after school hours, you can sepatate time to a few timeboxes: 1 hour homework, 1 hour play, 1 hour family time...

Only in one scenario you don't need small timeboxes, that is you go to beach to relax. But you still need a big timebox. By a time, you have to be back.

The second is morning/night list. Attached a few versions. Let the kids develop the list by themselves, and checkup the list in the morning/night.

Again: love, wisdom and fun.

Best regards,

Glen


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