孩子要知道，晚上的时间是父母大人的！
妈妈的焦虑！
Mom's Anxiety !
离开兔小兔独身一人到另外城市办事。
我没有心碎、舍不得、牵肠挂肚，不就是4天？
When heading for business out of
town without Little Bunny around,
I didn’t find myself heartbroken,
unwilling and worried. It’s just four days.
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在A城，意外发现我多年未谋面的朋友，
天哪，怎么成了这样？
In City A, I encountered a friend of mine
who I hadn’t seen for years.
Oh God, what had happened to her?
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“你心真是宽，我离开半天都受不了”，
她紧紧地攫住女儿的手。
“ You must have a very strong heart.
If I were you, I wouldn’t bear it for half a day”.
Her hands were around her daughter’s
tightly when saying these words.
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“他要和我离婚，孩子我放不了，
自从她生下来，我一夜都没离开过她……”
“He wants a divorce from me.
But I can’t let go my baby.
I’ve never been away from her for a second
since she was born…”
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“那孩子爸爸”，我问。
她说，“他一个人一个房间，睡了5年”
“What happened to her father then?”
“We’ve separated for five years.”
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“为什么呢？”
她掀起衣服，“我不知道生孩子会变化这么大，
这身材，我自己看了也失去了兴趣。”
“Why?”
“Look, I didn’t know having baby
would bring such a big change to my body
that I lost interest of it myself too.”
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时光流逝，成为母亲，
我们肯定已不再是从前的那个人，
那是很显然的事情。
As time went by ,
it’s quite obvious we were no longer
the ones we used to be after being moms.
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我没有说什么，此时，倾听便是最好的安慰！
结束悄悄致电兔爸爸，他说，
小兔第一天晚上她醒过来哭了一下，
发现没人理会，慢慢就不哭了。
他为自己培养了孩子‘就寝习惯’而骄傲，
我为自己能放手不内疚也很高兴。
I didn’t say anything,At that moment,
nothing would give more comfort than listening.
After that I called Daddy Rabbit and he told me that
the first night Little Bunny woke up and cried for a while.
She stopped crying soon after
knowing there’s no one to turn to.
Daddy Rabbit was quite proud of his way of setting
a good night habit for Little Bunny.
While I was pleased to learn
that I was not that guilty by leaving her behind.
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“孩子，不是我们的全部”，
这是身为母亲之后我人生字典中新加的一句话，
即便有了孩子，
每天也务必要
与孩子爸爸有几个小时独处机会，
这一切不仅是把家庭模式调整到健康生活角度，
而且也有益于孩子的健康。
“Children are not the whole meaning of our life.”
It’s this sentence that I added to my life dictionary
after being a mom.
Even after being a mom,
the opportunity of being with the other part
for a couple of hours a day must be created.
This will not only bring family
pattern into a healthy lifestyle
but also do good to children’s health.
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第三季，即将欢乐开启！
