Two years ago , when I was single ,my mom called me one day," My baby,stop waiting! I was lisening to the radio program helps people find love." my mom sounded very excited but I started  to have a  bad feeling,"  Mom , I will not call the radio program to find a boyfriend  oh you don't have to ,I already did ." " without asking me? Mom!" Don't worry , I said very nice things! I didn't mention you were short . I said my lovely daughter is looking for a husband . She is beautiful and tall, please feel free to call 

!.演讲中为什么要有幽默

2.演讲中幽默的方法

3.演讲中幽默的表达

幽默不一定要，但最好有

1.演讲中为什么要有幽默

1. release tension （越是紧张越会笑，上帝创造了幽默就是为了让大家释放压力）

2. build a rapport 建立亲密关系

3. keep the audience interested 

4. help people remember your point and you 

2.演讲中幽默的方法

2a : about humor ,we should know 关于幽默我们知道的

a. 幽默和悲剧在一起 humor always comes with tragedy

b. 幽默是让观众在头脑中产生共鸣

c. 演讲中幽默，不是搞笑

搞笑的目的是逗大家笑，幽默的目的是更好地表达观点

2B 幽默的几种方法

原创是最好的

1. Visual aids and funny accent 直观展示

2.create a picture 创造画面可以用比喻

when I was standing behind the counter ,people could not see me; when I was carrying a bag ,people just saw a bag moving 

3. surprise 让观众感到意外（荒谬，对比，夸张，不按逻辑）

I had a couple of roomates named mom and dad 

when I sit down,people think I am Snow White : When I stand up ,people think I am one of her seven friends 

we keep thinking what we don't have .we always say: oh ,that neighbor has a new car, I don't .I want that ! that neigubor has a big house , I don't , I want have that .,that neighbor has a beautiful daughter , I don't .I want that. that neighbor has a cancer, I don't ,oh  I don't want that

(三翻四抖）

4.Wordplay （DCG DTM赋予新义）

5.Audience-related 与现场观众相关，现挂

能否产生共鸣？

3.演讲中幽默的表达

the set up ;pause ; punch line 包袱句 pauch word 点睛词  ending pause 结束停顿