我们不能因为TA的到来，而忽略了彼此。
最好的礼物！
The Best Gift !
头三个月的“痛苦”过后人便精神起来了，
我感觉到怀孕对女人来说，
真是一种与生俱来的巨大权利，
是男人无法体验的幸事。
After the "suffering " of the first trimester was over,
a new me with full of energy came back.
It was then I began to realize that being pregnant
was like a destined privilege given to women
that men could never experience.
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脑海中尽是挥之不去如何善尽本职的想法。
My mind was filled with thoughts of
"how to be a best ".
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我像只过冬的老鼠一样不停地为TA囤积各种东西！
I found myself like a mouse getting ready
for winter goods for the coming life.
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“
要不要把我书房改成婴儿房？
朝南，阳光好”，他问。
" Shall we change my study into a Baby room?
It's facing south with much sunshine." he asked.
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“噢，不行，TA要跟我睡才对，”
我不假思索地拒绝。
“TA不能一直睡我们的床上，
TA需要独立空间，我们也需要独立空间”，他坚持！
"Oh no, surely It will sleep with me."
I replied immediately.
"But It can't sleep with us forever,
It needs a separate room
and we need ours as well. " he insisted.
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显而易见， 女人是世界上最奇妙的生物，
一旦怀孕便会沉迷在新生命的律动中
而忘记另一半的存在，
我们定下规则：不能忽略对方。
It's obvious that a woman was
the most amazing creature
in the world who was so indulged in the rythem
of a new life that she was absolutely
unaware of the existence of the other half.
Finally a rule was set
that we shouldn't ignore each other.
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我们一起改造婴儿房。
Together we changed the study into a baby room.
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我们一起逛儿童用品店。
Together we went shopping in kids stores.
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我们一起布置婴儿房。
Together we decorated the baby room.
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这个“小宇宙”，
是迎接TA最好的礼物。
我们希望能让TA从小就在心里种植一片花园，
即使躺在小小的床上也能感觉到最温暖的阳光。
TA是独立的生命体，
同时，我们也是！
它将无时不刻提醒未来的我们仨：
爱要均衡。
Together we created this "Mini universe"
as the best gift for It,
hoping It could grow a garden within Its heart
so that It could feel the warm sunshine even
when lying on the crib.
Like us,it will be an independent living individual.
This gift will always remind us three
that love should always be balanced.
你享受这个过程吗？下一集，尽请期待！
