聊天的精髓

聊天，应该是最寻常不过的事了，那怎么把天聊好却不是件简单的事。

我觉得聊天的精髓在于内容引导，有话可接。不知道你是否能赞同我的观点。

我相信每个人都遇见这样的情况，聊着聊着突然话题就死了。

比如你的朋友和你大谈世界杯的时候，可偏偏你又不喜欢这个，也不想听他谈论足球，那么你就得做好引导工作。

“世界杯都是晚上进行的，那你不是得天天熬夜，第二天上班不困吗”那下面聊得就是熬夜或者第二天犯困的事了。

所以我说聊天的精髓在于内容引导，当对方提出一个你完全不想接的话题，不必急着要抵抗，而是轻巧的把对方热宗的话题引导到一个很生活的方向就行了。

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Chatting, should be the most common thing, then how to chat well is not a simple thing.

I think the essence of chat is content guidance, The topic can be followed . I wonder if you can agree with me.

I believe everyone meets this kind of situation, chatting and suddenly the topic dies.

For example, when your friend talks about the world cup with you, but you don't like it and don't want to hear him talk about football, then you have to do a good job of guiding.

"The world cup is held at night. Don't you have to stay up late every day and not be sleepy the next day?" the following topic of conversation is about staying up late or being sleepy the next day.

So I said that the essence of chat is content guidance. When the other party puts forward a topic you don't want to answer, you don't need to resist in a hurry. Instead, you can lead the hot topic of the other party to a very life direction

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