how to control ur life

study is important.And i want more skills.i still don't know how to control my life.but i will work hard.today i thought a lot about my life.And i am likely to know how to control my life.i have my criteria of my life. i am a person who is always thinking.for example,my friends always say that they don't want to talk with me because i am always absent-minded.And i admit that o am a thinker.that's why i am so lazy.in the next year,i hope i can be more diligent.let's turn to the subject,i have set criteria on my every behavior like getting along with friends my secretary studying And my boyfriend And so on.