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文章底部有福利

在上一篇文章《既能够学英语又可以轻松有趣学操作知识的百科网站》中我谈到了学习英语当中有一项非常重要的能力就是自我解决问题，自我学习的能力。针对一个问题你可以通过What，Why，How的方式去自我思考，自我解决问题。学习英语的目的是学以致用，如果你想学习英语又想获取知识来解决实际问题。我会推荐给你一个实用性英文网站-Wikihow。大家可能还没有试过这个网站，今天刚好是情人节，你可以去试试这个网站提问搜索，看看具体效果如何。

情人节是一个纪念爱的特殊日子。在这一天，空气中都弥漫着爱情的味道，各种餐厅的生意很火爆，玫瑰花销量极佳，各种香水包包衣服鞋子的营业额也是蹭蹭蹭。夜晚的街头都可以看到男男女女们成双成对的在一起说说笑笑，甜甜蜜蜜。

但是，对于情人们来说，不知道做些什么来更好地庆祝这个日子，尤其对于男同胞们来说就是一个要小心的日子呀，分手可能就是分分钟的事情。很多单身人士认为这一天是一个悲伤的日子。他们强忍住泪水说到这一天也是撒狗粮的日子，每年总有那么几天会被虐。

所以，这一天并不是那么简单的一天，弄不好你就立马看着别人过节了。但是，我要告诉你。不用担心，不管你是不是单身人士，你的福音都来了。专业的Wikihow来教你如何让情人节更有情人味儿，专业的Wikhow来拯救你于水深火热当中，专业的Wikihow让是情人的更加甜蜜，让不是情人的在这一天也可能找到你的另一半。情人节这天的专业事情就让专业的wikihow来教你吧！

当然，如果你会英语，你能够触碰的学习资料就会更多，你的成功几率就会更大。所以，现在你才知道学习英语的重要性了？以下是我选择的部分建议，想阅读更多的建议你应该知道去哪里找资源吧？什么？你说过情人节是先要需要一个情人？没问题，Wikihow还可以教你How to get a valentine.

1.Spending Quality Time Together

Arrange for dinner.

You can book a reservation at your favorite restaurant or you can cook. It doesn’t even have to be fine dining. Often just putting something together in advance is a good way to show your Valentine that you care and that you’re thinking of them.Add some candles, turn down the lights, and it's a perfect romantic evening.这条建议给的很棒吧？要么去餐厅吃，要么自己做。自己做也不一定要做的多好吃，最重要的是让另外一半感到你的关心和爱护。吃饭的时候，关掉灯，点上蜡烛，完美浪漫的一晚！

Plan a day out.

Spend an entire day exploring with your significant other. Go to anew museum, go paintballing together, or hike a long trail that you’ve both been interested in, but never had the time for.与Ta去周围游玩一天，可以去博物馆、公园、玩游戏、逛街等等。外出也是一个放松身心的好办法，但是外出一定要注意，选不对地方你就屎定了。

Go for a long walk together.

If you go to a nature preserve or big park, bring a field guide to birds or wild flowers and have fun working together to identify what you see.去附近的自然环境中走走，如果能够在途中有观鸟或者花的环节也是非常棒的。和Ta一起去探索自然，享受自然吧。

Surprise your significant other with a weekend away.

Book a few nights at a cozy bed and breakfast, or visit a nearby city for a few days. You might have to tell them to set aside the weekend for something special, but they don't have to know where you're going.与Ta一起外出旅行，享受旅行的乐趣。

2.Affirming Your Loved One

Write your Valentine a note.

Tell them how much you love them, and include specific things that you love about them, whether it’s how passionate they are about the things they love or their strong sense of justice or just the way they smile when they’re a little embarrassed.学会表达你的爱，可以写下一些具体的细节。

Volunteer with your partner for a cause they care about.

If they love dogs, offer to spend a day cleaning kennels and walking dogs at the local SPCA. By investing time in something near to their heart, you are affirming that what matters to them matters to you.如果Ta有养宠物，那么你可以照顾Ta的宠物，表达你对宠物的爱也是表达你对Ta的爱。当然也可以是其他的事情，但是最重要的是你愿意在Ta身上花时间，表达Ta对你的重要性。

Tell them how grateful you are.

For a day or a week, take a moment every time they do something you appreciate to tell them that you’re grateful for them and what they do.Especially try to note things you might normally take for granted.可以用一段时间想想Ta为你做过的事情，尝试写下一些需要表达感谢的细节和表达感激河感谢的话语。

Sit down together and tell your partner face-to-face what you love about them.

Notes are nice and can be saved for another day, but few things are as thoughtful and affirming as having someone look directly into your eyes to tell  you how much they love you and why.这一条太深情了，自己看吧。

3. Giving Special Gifts

Order their favorite takeout just the way they  like it.

When you know someone well, you learn their quirks: how well they like their burgers cooked, what they’re allergic to, that they can’t stand the texture of artichokes or hearts of palm. 如果你了解一个人，那么你也知道他们的一些“怪癖”。他们对于一切事物的感受和要求，包括非常重要的吃着一部分。所以，可以尝试点一次Ta喜欢的外卖。

Make them a music mix.

Maybe it’s old school to give CDs or mix-tapes in the age of internet streaming services, but that just makes it more fun. Make a list of songs that are special to the two of you or that make you think of them.选择Ta或者你们都喜欢的歌曲，把歌曲进行组合放在CD上当做礼物。

Pamper them.

Schedule a couples’ massage. Relax in a sauna. Spend a day at the spa with your Valentine, and they're sure to come away feeling seriously loved.可以与Ta去享受按摩、桑拿、Spa等等，放松身心好方式。如果你愿意亲身按摩更好，如果你的按摩技术跟老友记中的Monica一样就不要尝试了。

Send your partner flowers.

This gesture is classic, but that just makes it a clearer statement. If you know what their favorite flowers are, that’s great, but for many people, the gesture alone says it all.常见的送花方式，虽然这种方式非常常见，但是收到花的人还是非常开心和满意，尤其你能够选择Ta喜欢的花。

福利

今天的课就上到这里，要学习的还有太多，我先去补课去了。

祝大家节日快乐。