亲，让乃们鸡立鹤群的强项都是啥？——苦瓜牛肉
三年前在SOKL上做的Gallup Clifton Strengths Finder（盖洛普·克里夫顿优势识别测试），最近托m公司的福又免费重测了一次。测试时长约40分钟涉及上百道按自己符合程度打分的情境描述。两次测试虽间隔三年。结果却惊人的相似。34型强项中排在前五的有四个是一样的，有出入的一个其实也算姐妹型。一方面，看来本姐姐的人格和身高一样很久以前就不思进取了。另一方面也说明这个测试应该还是有几分可信度的。世上最漫长的路，莫非是上帝造我们的"套路"？他老人家倒是七日之内完事，可曾想本姐我摸爬滚打这些年，走过无数的山穷水尽柳暗花明才慢慢开始认识自己那么一丢丢唉。不过就是这一小丢丢，也让俺迸发出无穷的智慧和力量来熬人生这碗鸡汤。话说继熬鸡汤后，翻译光荣的成为本姐姐又一项造（聒）福（噪）全人类的爱好，嘿嘿嘿。下面请听让本西鸡立鹤群万里长城永不倒 （？？！）的五大人格强项及特邀嘉宾的精彩点评！！
1. Achiever 达成者型 （“劳碌命型”）
Your Achiever theme helps explain your drive. Achiever describes a constant need for achievement.You feel as if every day starts at zero. By the end of the day you must achieve something tangible in order to feel good about yourself. And by “every day” you mean every single day—workdays,weekends, vacations. No matter how much you may feel you deserve a day of rest, if the day passes without some form of achievement, no matter how small, you will feel dissatisfied. You have an internal fire burning inside you. It pushes you to do more, to achieve more. After each accomplishment is reached, the fire dwindles for a moment, but very soon it rekindles itself, forcing you toward the next accomplishment. Your relentless need for achievement might not be logical. It might not even be focused. But it will always be with you. As an Achiever you must learn to live with this whisper of discontent. It does have its benefits. It brings you the energy you need to work long hours without burning out. It is the jolt you can always count on to get you started on new tasks, new challenges. It is the power supply that causes you to set the pace and define the levels of productivity for your work group. It is the theme that keeps you moving.你的达成者型强项有助于解释你达成目标的动力来源。达成者描述的是一种对达成目标有一种持续不断的需要的特质。在你看来，每天都是从零开始的。在一天结束的时候你至少需要达成哪怕一些微小的目标才会让自己释怀。这里说的“每天”，顾名思义指的是一年365天中的每一天，无论是工作日，周末，还是休假。不管你觉得自己如何值得被犒赏一顿休息，如果哪一天一无所成，会让你的内心涌起巨大的不满足感。你的心里就像时时燃烧着一团烈火。它不断促使你去达成更多的目标，成就更多的事情。每一个目标完成后，那团烈火会稍事停歇，但很快又会重振旗鼓，迫使你去追寻下一个目标。你目标导向的毫不松懈的努力并不总是遵循逻辑的。它有时候甚至不会聚焦在某一件特定的事情上。但它从未离开过你。作为一个达成者型的人，你需要学会如何与内心的不满足共生。这种不满足确实有它的益处，它使你得以为了达成目标长时间工作而不会歇菜。它也是你需要开始一项新的任务或面临新挑战的时候可以依赖的轴承。它是提供能量的发电机，决定你工作的节奏和效率。它是让你持续前进的动力。
脂砚寨评：翻阅至此，不禁掩面泣血。我西此生与包养绝缘已！既无包养人之情怀，也无被包养之心志。唯有幸寻得劳碌命之同道中人，方可脱咒也！福兮？祸兮？呜呼哀哉～
2. Developer 陶匠型（梦工厂厂长型）
You see the potential in others. Very often, in fact, potential is all you see. In your view no individual is fully formed. On the contrary, each individual is a work in progress, alive with possibilities. And you are drawn toward people for this very reason. When you interact with others, your goal is to help them experience success. You look for ways to challenge them. You devise interesting experiences that can stretch them and help them grow. And all the while you are on the lookout for the signs of growth—a new behavior learned or modified, a slight improvement in a skill, a glimpse of excellence or of “flow” where previously there were only halting steps. For you these small increments—invisible to some—are clear signs of potential being realized. These signs of growth in others are your fuel. They bring you strength and satisfaction. Over time many will seek you out for help and encouragement because on some level they know that your helpfulness is both genuine and fulfilling to you.你有一种可以看到别人身上的潜力的能力。事实上，你通常看待人的方式就是看到每个人的潜力。在你看来，没有人是已经成型乃至一成不变的。相反的，每个人的生命都在施工中，充满了各样的可能性。因为这个原因，你会情不自禁被吸引到各式各样人们的身边。当你与他们互动的时候，你的目标就是去帮助他们经历成功。你寻找让他们受到磨炼的方式。你设置有趣的体验来让他们的生命被拉伸而成长。而且在这个过程当中你不放过任何一个他们成长的标志——一个新学到或修正的行为习惯，技能上一个小的进步，卓越显现的前兆或者在一窜踉跄步伐后的流速前进。对你而言，这些小小的标志——可能会被别人忽略的标志——正是潜力被释放的清楚证据。别人身上成长的标志是你的热情和动力所在。它们给你带来能量和满足感。随着时间的推移，会有更多的人来寻求你的帮助和鼓励，因为他们在某种程度上知道你的帮助是发自心底的实诚而又让你的使命感得以满足的。
畸笏馊评：啧啧～咋看以为我西要步都教授之后尘！细想我西此等传道授业解惑之热情，实乃为扩张神国之疆界而预备也。带small group两年之经历可窥见一二。物尽其用否，可拭目以待！
3. Restorative 复兴型 （化腐朽为神奇型）
You love to solve problems. Whereas some are dismayed when they encounter yet another breakdown, you can be energized by it. You enjoy the challenge of analyzing the symptoms,identifying what is wrong, and finding the solution. You may prefer practical problems or conceptual ones or personal ones. You may seek out specific kinds of problems that you have met many times before and that you are confident you can fix. Or you may feel the greatest push when faced with complex and unfamiliar problems. Your exact preferences are determined by your other themes and experiences. But what is certain is that you enjoy bringing things back to life. It is a wonderful feeling to identify the undermining factor(s), eradicate them, and restore something to its true glory.Intuitively, you know that without your intervention, this thing—this machine, this technique, this person, this company—might have ceased to function. You fixed it, resuscitated it, rekindled its vitality. Phrasing it the way you might, you saved it.你对解决问题有种极大的热忱。当别人因为又遇到一个挫折而垂头丧气的时候，同样的挫折反而可能让你斗志旺盛。你享受着分析事态的表征，诊断错误的原因以及找到解决的方案的过程。无论是实用性的，抽象的还是个人层面的问题，你都可能感兴趣。你可能会倾向于解决自己已经遇到过很多次因而比较熟悉和胸有成竹的特定问题，你也可能对更复杂和不熟悉的问题有更大的兴趣。你在具体情境中的表现取决于你其他型的强项和经历。但有一点可以确信的是，你享受着让事物恢复生机的过程。找到事物表层以下的决定因素，剔除它们，使得事物恢到它们原有的荣耀，对你而言是一种无比美妙的感觉。你的直觉也告诉你，如果没有你的介入，这些事物——可能是一台机器，一项技术，一个人，一个公司——可能早就停止运作了。你解决了问题，使它们复活，重燃它们的生命力。怎么描述都可以，就是，你拯救了它们。
保罗评：这莫不应是每个基督的门徒的标配么！“主的灵在我身上，因为他膏立我去向贫穷的人传福音，他差派我去宣告：被掳的得释放，瞎眼的得看见，让受欺压的得自由！“ 复兴光明，复兴自由，复兴生命所有的荣耀！
4. Futuristic 未来主义者型 （脑洞大开型）
“Wouldn’t it be great if . . .” You are the kind of person who loves to peer over the horizon. The future fascinates you. As if it were projected on the wall, you see in detail what the future might hold, and this detailed picture keeps pulling you forward, into tomorrow. While the exact content of the picture will depend on your other strengths and interests—a better product, a better team, a better life, or a better world—it will always be inspirational to you. You are a dreamer who sees visions of what could be and who cherishes those visions. When the present proves too frustrating and the people around you too pragmatic, you conjure up your visions of the future and they energize you. They can energize others, too. In fact, very often people look to you to describe your visions of the future. They want a picture that can raise their sights and thereby their spirits. You can paint it for them. Practice. Choose your words carefully. Make the picture as vivid as possible. People will want to latch on to the hope you bring.“如果这样会不会如何如何？”——你是那种会从横切面看问题的人。未来让你着迷。就像被投影到墙上那样，你能够看到未来的纹路和细节。而这些细节敦促你前进，向明天进发。尽管关于未来的细节取决于你其他的强项和兴趣——它们可能是一个更好的产品，一个更好的团队，一个更好的人生，或一个更好的世界——这些对你来说都可能是带给你灵感和启发的源泉。你是一个梦想家，能够看到未来的无限可能并且珍视这些可能。当现实太过于令人失望或是身边的人太循规蹈矩，你对未来的预见会让你重新得力。它们也会感染你周边的人。实际上，人们通常会寻求你描述未来的异象。他们想要能够扩张他们眼界乃至提升他们心灵的关于未来的画面。而你能够将这样的画面描绘出来给他们。多多练习吧！谨慎选择你用以描述的词汇。尽你所能让它们栩栩如生。人们会紧紧抓住你所带来的盼望。
乔布斯评：小样儿～那你给我描述下 iPhone56 长啥样？
5. Individualization 个性化型（私人定制型）
Your Individualization theme leads you to be intrigued by the unique qualities of each person. You are impatient with generalizations or “types” because you don’t want to obscure what is special and distinct about each person. Instead, you focus on the differences between individuals. You instinctively observe each person’s style, each person’s motivation, how each thinks, and how each builds relationships. You hear the one-of-a-kind stories in each person’s life. This theme explains why you pick your friends just the right birthday gift, why you know that one person prefers praise in public and another detests it, and why you tailor your teaching style to accommodate one person’s need to be shown and another’s desire to “figure it out as I go.” Because you are such a keen observer of other people’s strengths, you can draw out the best in each person. This Individualization theme also helps you build productive teams. While some search around for the perfect team “structure” or“process,” you know instinctively that the secret to great teams is casting by individual strengths so that everyone can do a lot of what they do well.你的个性化型强项引导你被人们独一无二的特质所吸引。你不屑于所谓的一般和归类，因为你不想无视每个人身上特别独有的东西。相反的，你专注于人与人之间的差异性。你本能的能够察觉每个人不同的风格，不同的动机，每个人想问题的方式，以及他们与人建立关系的方式。你在每个人的生命里都能解读到独一无二的故事。这个特质也解释了你为什么能够给你的朋友选择一份刚好合适的生日礼物，为什么你知道有些人喜欢被当众表扬而另一些则不，为什么你能够调整你的教学模式以分别适应需要事事示范的学生和倾向于自学成才的学生。因为你是这样热衷于观察别人的强项，你能够把每个人最美好的特质勾勒引导出来。你的个性化型强项还能够帮助你建立一个高效的团队。当别人还在苦苦搜寻一个完美团队的组成配方的时候，你本能的就知道一个伟大的团队的秘诀在于让每个人在自己最擅长的地方各尽其职。
冯小刚评：哟呵！我的电影没找你当编剧还失策了？
这鸡汤熬得可真是实诚～顺附菜谱一则吧 嘿嘿
材料：苦瓜三个，牛肉400g，葱蒜少许，干辣椒末少许，鸡蛋一只
做法：
1.牛肉切成小长条，用料酒，酱油，盐，淀粉和一个鸡蛋打出的蛋清腌制半小时
2. 苦瓜切半，掏出里面的瓤，在把内表皮都清干净，切成小薄片后，用盐拌匀，手用力抓几分钟至盐入味，苦瓜汁液流出，这步可以稍微去处苦瓜的苦味
3.取一个小锅，烧开水后，倒入盐腌制好的苦瓜片，煮两三分钟后捞出，沥干
4. 锅内放入少许油，加入葱蒜和干辣椒末，爆香
5. 倒入腌制好的牛肉，翻炒至牛肉变熟水分蒸出开始出油后，倒入燎好的苦瓜
6. 翻匀后加入一勺蚝油，少许盐，继续翻炒几分钟收汁后就可以出锅啦
