Enlightenment

Today I watched a video in which what the blogger said was very reasonable and helpful. I would like to share it with you. It was said in Chinese, but I am rephrasing it in English with my words here.

If you can attain enlightenment on your own, there is no need for help from others. If you can not attain enlightenment on your own, others can not help you successfully neither. It will make you experience some truth of life that you don't understand over and over again until you notice and understand it.

So why do you always repeat the same failure in life? because you have not yet noticed, understood and taken action to change the current situation. It will let you continue the same failure if the amount of failure is not enough for you to realize it.