2018-07-29 About ambition and wi

I have a chat with an old friend today. Jingzhi who has just graduated from Oxford University. He is a Ph.D. of Biomedicine. He chose to come back and be a consultant for a company named Meihua. I do believe it is a great idea to do so, considering the current circumstance. 

I do admire his choice is the wisest one. I hope I could do the same by myself. He is also a good person to talk to if I need some advice. I believe so.

I also remembered a TALK about how to make a good choice for life that left me a great impression. 

I wish I could remember the story for life. 

The history of Qing dynasty has shown that the Empire has made every best choice if you looked into the circumstance at the very time period. However, it is not for the best if you looking into the future or “the goal” for the long run. They do not have a “goal”. All they want is to survive not thrive. What they are trying to do is to breath not to be strong. That makes the country weak and aimless. 

The best choice or easy-way-out may not be “best” or far from “easy” if for a long run. Aiming to your goal makes your choice correct. The good strategies can only be great if you use it for your long-term plan, other than for a purpose may give you an easy way out for the time being. 

I think my goal of being true to myself and build a family of my own can be possible if I work hard on it. I should not hesitate, or distracted from it. However, one should always remember that to accomplish my goal here is not only one route. I can do it in other countries or other places, or even in my small corner. 

Location? — not important— I can try to be a doctor in other countries. 

Doctor? —can change— Can be a consultant for companies. or many other possibilities

I should be open minded.

Do not afraid of changes. 

Embrace them. 

Cause they are the powerful force that makes the old die and the new always gets the power.

Most importantly, talk to a great mind.

Kuang, Kevin, Jingzhi

Their perspective may be useful to you.

KUANG: I do not afraid of any changes, good or bad. I think in many ways the things that you are afraid of happening to you is a good thing.  You have to believe it may need to transform into something greater. 

You see, the decision that our clinic suspended for 3 months is actually a good thing cause we need to realize that innovation is our specialty not number. 

The rebel of Ai is also great. We lose a burden of ours.

Even though we have lost a few patients, we can realize that what makes me different is not the number. It is innovation that makes me, makes us better than others. 

I am not afraid of changes. That idea of innovation makes our clinic became the head of our peer. 

I hope you can see the meaning behind. 

To me, my goal is simple. To be a true-to-self good doctor with a happy family. 

What makes me different, I think is my knowledge and persistence. 

I will conquer.